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What I've noticed common among a lot of Americans is a fear/inhibition of speaking the truth, mostly to not have a confrontation. I witnessed an example of this in a music performance of a teen rock band. In this performance, the
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> I don't think you're going to find the woman you do want in the MGTOW community... Surrogate, adoption, orphanages. I love kids. But I don't care about my 'lineage'
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As a millennial male, I have changed from being a man who grew up wanting a family life, kids and a happy family to a lone-wolf don't-give-a-fuck man in a span of just 2 years Basically, I changed from being "Dad material" to
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10y ago
This is genius. Really. You want to know what kind of crowd will drop $129 on this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6naWlVjcIM Genius!
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10y ago
You mean something like Alcatraz prison?
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10y ago
This still happens in India. Parents of daughters are direct about income requirements. Women want men who earn more than them, down to the rupee. Men want women who are young, beautiful and homely. All this is blatantly specified in the ad
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10y ago
>> If it were a genuine attempt to maturely discuss gender issues in the workplace from a male point of view, the world would probably be okay with it. This is genuine. Thanks!
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10y ago
I understand that picture very well. Thanks for bringing it up. I really think equality of opportunity should exist beyond social lines like gender, race, disabilities etc. But equality of outcome? Why? Why should everyone have equal outcom
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10y ago
Understandable. As a non-frat guy, I get what you are saying. Even then, I find the term 'brogrammer' hilarious. I think of it as humor for guys. It's kinda like the series, "Vagina monologues". Many men find it off
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>> you seem stuck on the "can have" bit, which isn't really the point. Ok, so you wouldn't oppose if a man goes and creates a group called, "Ask a brogrammer?" brogrammer = funny slang for male programme
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10y ago
Boring really? As a male who enjoys company of other males (not sexually), I have not found it boring at all. Mixed groups have definitely been socially better but I'd pick male mentoring forums any day. Boring isn't the first thi
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But I'm not trying to 'balance' anything out. Equality means equal regardless of gender. So if one can have "Ask a female athlete", why not "Ask a male athlete". Your example is valid too. This is a genuin
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10y ago
Not trying to be sarcastic but how would the world respond if someone starts, "Ask a male engineer"?
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10y ago
Reminds me of the trope that the choice should ALWAYS be left with consumers. Every consumer is a 'rational actor'. Reality is most humans have too many things going on, too many choices with not adequate info and are emotional ac
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10y ago
That's a shitty bet to take in life, considering that the likelihood is as good as winning the lottery. At least the lottery ticket costs just $10 and not a few years of life.
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10y ago
The incentive is clear. Whistleblow and you get a reward. The whistleblowers are humans who can't really wait until later and later. It risks being found out or losing the window of whistleblowing. Also, most people are not this analyt
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10y ago
You see this everywhere. I saw this in school. Some kids got good grades but really knew jack shit. The grades were a result of memorizing, cheating, plagiarizing assignments, great rapport with professor and TA, great recommendations. All
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10y ago
This is nonsense. We need diversity of opinions, thoughts and processes...not skin color, sex or wealth. Sure we want equal opportunity to all. But that doesn't mean equal outcome. The outcome should only be based on merit.
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10y ago
It's far too much to ask of 18 year olds. Unfortunately, these are the same people who are of voting age. At a systemic level, voters cannot afford to be gullible. Right now, they are! Part of the reason for gullibility at that age is
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10y ago
This is also a way many companies prevent their engineers from leaving. The act of switching a job is PAINFUL. Most people stick to their jobs for as long as they can just to avoid the pain, pressure and stress.
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As a 27 Yr old guy in SF, I agree with bot style dating. I started out wanting to find a healthy relationship possibly leading to marriage and a happy life. Then I realized that for women, dating is a hell lot easier today. They literally n
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Completely unrelated to the bay area but some strip clubs prefer nerdy Indian and Asian customers more than other races. These are the guys with some disposable income and no inclination to cause trouble. Model customers for such businesses
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10y ago
Here's an alternate hypothesis. Maybe, just maybe, men and women are different? Maybe men and women have different strengths and aptitudes?
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For me it was smosh pokemon theme song lip sync. Unfortunately, Smosh were sued for using the theme song and had to take it down. Here's a duplicate of it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOX3OmUhQoo
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Life in America is simple, "To each his own". You are on your own if you fuck up and no, you can't rely on institutions to save your ass. Institutions are just looking for their own good.
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10y ago
There are so many different types of Indian people in India, it's hard to generalize. - There will be some people who believe that this was deserved - There will be some who believe they should help right away - There will be some who
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> There is no legally-specified default custody in divorce; women get custody in divorce more often because they are more likely to request it. Men get custody more often when it is contested between the parties. > Again, to the exten
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Not really. Laws in the US default to women as caregivers. - Women get maternity, men don't - Women get default custody of child in divorce, men don't - Women get to adopt easier than men - Domestic violence on men is ignored/
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>> I think you've missed the point. This is exactly what I did. Both my partner and I have CS degrees from a top 10 university, and we decided that her career looked more promising. This. You come from educated backgrounds. Most
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>> There are fewer women, proportionally, who "climb ladders" successfully. This implies that there are fewer capable women than men in the world. Or, they make different life choices. >> The mother being present is n
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