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As a 27 Yr old guy in SF, I agree with bot style dating. I started out wanting to find a healthy relationship possibly leading to marriage and a happy life. T
by NTDF9 10y ago
As a 27 Yr old guy in SF, I agree with bot style dating.
I started out wanting to find a healthy relationship possibly leading to marriage and a happy life.
Then I realized that for women, dating is a hell lot easier today. They literally need to just swipe right because pretty much every man swipes right on every woman.
Poor women go in thinking these men want relationships.
So, even when they meet an above average guy, they think that this awesome guy really likes her(when the reality is he just wants a hookup)
As a result, women end up obsessing over the awesome guy and keep flaking on the genuine normal guy.
I ended up doing the same thing awesome guys do...meet a lot of women, and don't expect a good personality or anything good in return from women. Just hookup.
Am I happy? No. But at least I get laid.
TLDR:
Women put in zero effort I'm dating and flake a lot. Average women expect above average men. The juice is not worth the squeeze.