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by _zn8u 3y ago
The full thread is here (click on the right arrow to see all the comments). https://www.reddit.com/r/berkeley/comments/1bitr75/another_d...
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by _zn8u 3y ago
I'm really happy that you found the love of your life! I'm not saying you should be careless, but I am saying that the way you put in effort is by having good, healthy relationships with others around you. I think the kid needs gu
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by _zn8u 3y ago
To be clear, as a woman, hearing a potential partner (of any gender -- I'm pansexual) whine about how they can't get a girlfriend would make me instantly uninterested in a romantic relationship with them. Also, the advice to focus
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by _zn8u 3y ago
I linked to it in the comment you replied to. Here's the link again: https://www.reddit.com/r/berkeley/comments/1bitr75/another_d... (You need to click on the right arrow to see the full series of i
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by _zn8u 3y ago
That's not the OP, and in any case that's much more of a comment than a question.
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by _zn8u 3y ago
To be clear, it was not an answer to a question. It was a reply to a commenter (not the OP) dumping on an unrelated question about job advice. At no point did anyone ask for dating advice. > All systemic problems of the kind you&#x
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by _zn8u 3y ago
I think a serious, mature comment would have provided at least one citation about gender ratios, and would have treated this as a systemic problem rather than commenting on any individual or group's behavior. A serious comment would ha
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by _zn8u 3y ago
Be that as it may, the phrase, and the comment in general, just does not reflect the gravity of the issue. A large gender skew is really, really bad for society and needs to be taken extremely seriously.
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by _zn8u 3y ago
At no point was a student asking for dating advice.
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by _zn8u 3y ago
I come from a country which has been suffering from this problem for many decades. A large gender imbalance warps society, and is a real concern particularly for straight dating/marriage. There are many ways to talk about it that refle
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by _zn8u 3y ago
From what I've found [1] the OP asked for ideas on what to do after they graduate, not dating advice. Then, a commenter started off responding but quickly switched into dumping their emotions about how they can't get a girlfriend.
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by _zn8u 3y ago
Yes, that's the name of Berkeley's department. If you're from a minority group in an area, it is _extremely_ unpleasant to hear yourself being talked about as if you're the object of a tactical military operation. "
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by _zn8u 3y ago
This is wildly inappropriate in a professional setting. As a woman reading that, I'm shocked. For a woman hoping to get into tech, comments like that made by authority figures just reinforce prior beliefs about how hostile our field