throwaway5650

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   by throwaway5650 9y ago

   Do you see value to asking if a person wants help before offering advice? Is that something you usually do?
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   by throwaway5650 9y ago

   I'm not sure what you mean by "whose job it is to help." In what sense is it your job? Were you asked to help? If so, by all means do your best, and be grateful that you are trusted. If not, I would recommend asking "is
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   by throwaway5650 9y ago

   Throwaway for reasons that will become obvious. Imagine that you met a friend you hadn't seen in years. They seemed really down, and you ask what's up. They say, "My job is to collect tolls in a tollbooth in Alaska. For 9 mon