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itake
1y ago
I think they are angry because a solution is available but not accessible. People are gatekeeping resources that would enable access to treatment because for big companies, spending $1 to earn $1 isn’t a sustainable business model.
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itake
1y ago
Fair. I believe some OTA is like Google flights enable you to price shop but still buy direct
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itake
1y ago
For many people, air travel is fungible. If Delta wants to charge me higher prices, I’ll choose a different airline. I feel like this is only gonna impact people that spend points or purchase flights directly on their platform and not peopl
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itake
1y ago
Unfortunately, this doesn’t seem that innovative compared to our current system where you can spend hours optimizing airline points, and shopping across various airlines. I suspect oTAs would not be able to customize the price and thus only
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itake
1y ago
I have a few people in my network like this too. They would tease me for working too many hours and having a high savings rate while they traveled around the world and spent their bonuses and vests. They struggled to find a job paying $140k
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itake
1y ago
Yeah, I went through that too: Gatsby, React, and NodeJS all needed upgrading. And if a package locks the version of node, you have to deal with removing the package or patching it yourself. ChatGPT has saved me soo many hours fixing this t
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itake
1y ago
While I run a home VPN, I think using it exclusively runs into issues: - frequently capture portals only permit access for 1-2hr. Your internet get cut off, then you have to realize its not a temporary issue, but portal issue, then you clos
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itake
1y ago
frameworks or languages deprecating apis.
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itake
1y ago
When I was a kid in Florida, my sisters stayed inside learning how to knit while watching tv in the AC while I was outside in 95º Florida Humidity heat, helping my grandfather repair and maintain his home. Outdoor labor is not enjoyable.
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itake
1y ago
Many wifi networks redirect non-encrypted http traffic to their captive portal. For the redirect to work, your DNS needs to be the default one provided by the router so that http://neverssl.com resolves to the wifi's "
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itake
1y ago
Just wondering, how do y'all manage wifi portals and manually setting DNS services? I used to use cf and google's but it was so annoying to disable and re-enable that every time I use a public wifi network.
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itake
1y ago
> Single women are simply better catches than single men. Whether we’re talking about intelligence, looks, happiness, social skills, or health, the average single woman marrying the average single man would be “marrying down” across near
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itake
1y ago
yeah, so instead of stepping up around the house with this extra 'free time', they either worker longer hours at their job or relax watching tv/sports/games.
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itake
1y ago
I wont disclose the country, but basically every girl I dated in this place had this problem. My last gf had a really high IQ and a very low EQ. I wish someone warned me about being single in your 30s.
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itake
1y ago
True. Personally I’m struggling to find women that want to be mothers, qualified or not.
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itake
1y ago
In 20 years, with more women than men going to college, a lot of women aren’t going to find partners if they want someone that matched or exceeds their education level.
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itake
1y ago
This tracts, but I think women are evaluating men in “TikTok” metrics, instead of qualities that make a man a great partner. For example, being over 6ft doesn’t make you a good dad. Or being physically attractive, doest’t make you a support
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itake
1y ago
You have an office? They closed mine and told me I’m remote now.
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itake
1y ago
IMHO, many of the traditional unpaid labor tasks go towards maintaining the home (repairs, landscaping, car repairs, etc)z In 2025, some of that labor is recaptured by the man, as that improves the value of the family home or cars. Also, if
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itake
1y ago
I don’t think “too nice” is correct, but I’ve definitely seen women pass on great guys that weren’t 6ft or good looking.
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itake
1y ago
thanks for sharing! I have definitely heard the "waiting for a stable career" from a few partners, despite me having a great situation. I will take a look at your linke tho
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itake
1y ago
I'm sorry you're going through that. I don't mean to discount the man's issues with modern dating. We are trying to do our best, but its still really hard.
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itake
1y ago
in the 1950s, your choice for life partner is the 50 kids in your high school class. Women got married below the age of 25 and didn't have careers. Today, Tinder and Instagram gives you access to literally the entire planet of single p
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itake
1y ago
how so? Most of the ideas I shared I got from the female author Logan Ury in her book, "how to not die alone"
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itake
1y ago
My sister is one of these cases. My take is the bar for marriage / life partner is really really high in modern relationships. Women aren't able to attract the mates they want, so they would rather try to do it on their own or wai
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itake
1y ago
Alimony is temporary and fixed, whereas careers are not only life-long, but have compounding growth. There is a significant financial gap between a divorced woman in her 50s with only five years of alimony remaining and a career woman in he
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itake
1y ago
Yeah, drives me crazy when governments are trying to lower the cost of childcare with tax incentives or creating dating apps to encourage connectivity. Yeah, this might convince some people, but money is not preventing educated women from h
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itake
1y ago
In many HCOL cities, for many couples, SAHM isn't a financially feasible option. Also, as a full-time mom, you’ve given up autonomy to your husband (since he controls the finances). While women can leave the relationship whenever they
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itake
1y ago
Some men are stepping up. but others aren't. Many women don't want to have kids because they can't find a qualified partner they feel will be a good dad and good husband.
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itake
1y ago
My $0.02 is being a mom sucks. In modern relationships, men just want to work and come home to a cooked meal and clean house, but their wives are working just as many hours the men are. Having kids means tension in relationship, unpaid labo
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