EatingWithForks

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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I don't think so, actually. Dealing with real men (through a dating app) means dealing with flawed humans beings in a way that simply doesn't happen in a romance book, same as dealing with real women vs OnlyFans. Men sleep, disagr
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I for one am interested why it's specifically AI girlfriend ads and not AI boyfriend ads. Heterosexual women are huge consumers of e.g. dating simulators, romance books, et al. that envision perfect men, bad boys with sweet hearts, wea
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
At that point, is it different from a general recommendation engine of users who like what you liked also liked X? [A thing which I also struggle with because I can never search based off of specific qualities no matter how many tags I sear
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
This might run into conflict with nuanced tastes, e.g. I would be a miserable gamer if this is how games are recommended to me because I actually really don't like very shiny new triple a shit. Spiritfarer changed my life and made me w
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Can America Age Gracefully?(nytimes.com)
1 points by EatingWithForks 3y ago|2 comments
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I wish there was serious consideration that this might be a kind of manifestation of disordered eating. Being overly extreme about your diet can be a form of disordered eating, especially if it's unconnected to underlying condition lik
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
This isn't even to advertise what everyone is being paid right now, just how much they expect to pay for roles they're hiring for.
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I think you misunderstood my depiction as saying all ADHD people are universally incompetent or dangerous. I'm saying that forcing untreated, unaddressed, undiagnosed ADHD people in a metalshop and getting them to work with dangerous m
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
Genuinely asking: Why are you asking for a source, and describing the depiction of a neurodevelopmental disorder as extreme, if you yourself seem to have very limited knowledge about the condition? What is your background of knowledge you a
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I agree that empathetic, compassionate human connections are way more useful than therapy is GENERALLY. (Therapists that function in an occupational manner, such as doing exposure therapy, DBT, EDMR, etc is different and I do not want a tru
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I am describing the basic experience of having ADHD. ADHD is described as having difficulty with: * paying attention * listening closely * following instructions * organizing tasks in the workplace * keeping track of physical objects These
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
If you grew up in post collapse USSR, you aren't of the age where you have to deal with the problems the parent post describes. It's important to recognize your lack of personal experience with it. I'm not saying that post co
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
> The solution we went with: Get the boys so high on stimulants they can sit still like the girls. This is a bit inaccurate. ADHD is diagnosed more in boys than girls, but is way, way more debilitating than being energetic to the point w
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
Freelancers in the united states are not allowed to bargain collectively for better prices, as that's considered market manipulation/price fixing. ["Independent Contractors" are literally banned from forming a union in t
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
> People who use LLM’s already know they can give wrong information I think this is unfortunately much less true than expected... Lawyer using chatgpt.. teachers using chatgpt... even professors using chatgpt... as if its a source of tru
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
What do you mean "in that very local community". Do you mean DMs should also be public to the geographic location you're in? Do you mean a white majority in a local space should be allowed to blanket ban black people from usi
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I could imagine that as a yearly food cost (a little under ~100/week). I lived off less than that when I was a grad student. It involved very little eating out (which this calculator accounts for) and consuming mostly stews or curries.
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I would argue the liability is on both sides, not just on the person who pays alimony. Society has exceptionally little ways to welcome stay at home parents back into the workforce. If a stay at home parent's spouse is disabled or kill
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
> I think it's especially rich that HR people think you're wasting /their/ time when they make you an insultingly low offer after extensive interviewing, especially considering there's a massive skills gap betwe
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I wish I had local news. For example if there's a crazy mom trying to get on the school board. Or my local towing company is owned by a person undergoing felony indictment. New businesses opening that could really use my dollars. My lo
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
You're arguing besides my point. My point is that I don't buy bullshit reasons how a riskier behavior is actually safer. A 50 year old motorcyclist trying to tell me "my age actually makes me safer on a motorcycle than if I w
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
If you drive a larger vehicle, you are taking on the increased risk of hitting other children or your own children. Whether or not you've actually hit a child doesn't change that fact and trying to wiggle out of it through that lo
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I'm okay with discussing reasonable risks people are taking. I'm just arguing not to bullshit me with what the risks are. I'm okay with motorcyclists on the road. I'm not okay with a motorcyclist trying to say "no,
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
Julian Evans isn't obligated to welcome people who wish her harm or want to make her life worse by arguing in bad faith. No one is obligated to welcome people who treat them poorly. I don't care if someone is hurt by my blocking t
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
By this logic, because I haven't killed anyone drunk driving, I should be allowed to drive drunk. No, it's important to point out hard facts here: by driving a car with less visibility, you become more dangerous to your family and
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
These cars are more likely to kill your children by running over them as they cross the street. You are more likely to kill your neighbor's kids by running over them because you don't have visibility 6+ feet in front of you. T
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
I don't know, I think there are some exceptions to this. It's very difficult to play dumb when a friend confides in you about their concerns getting an IUD in certain political landscapes. During the height of covid, more than one
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
Please reconsider this notion that it's rare for women to have fulfillment in life without children. It's really hurtful to women who have trouble conceiving or have had miscarriages (miscarriages are shockingly common) to have th
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
It's weird you simultaneously say "its a woman's prerogative to decide not to be a wife or a mother" but also describe them as "...who listen to propaganda.." or "...the prevailing winds should whisper int
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by EatingWithForks 3y ago
There's nothing wrong with people who do want children! I just want to support women who also choose not to have children.

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