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Facebook has been making itself unusable, I just want to check up on what my friends and family are up too but I just get a flood on unsolicited spam from pages

Facebook has been making itself unusable, I just want to check up on what my friends and family are up too but I just get a flood on unsolicited spam from pages I’m not interested in or want to see. Facebooks algorithm for their wall is one of the worst. Even if I X the spam posts it find other crap to spam with so I just gave up and visit FB every other week instead of daily for a quick update. Instagram is suffering the same fate, it doesn’t show my posts to my followers, really wants to show me post that have nothing to do with my interest and I’m getting a lot of likes from bots. I noticed my friends don’t post to it as much anymore so it’s feeling like a ghost town. I have an experiment going on, I have an art account on insta and X, every night I post the same image to both and X gives a lot more views and engagement than Instagram for the same content. Also it seems like the X algorithm is smarter than FB/instagram because it shows me similar art to what I post and keeps the correct vibe. Insta/FB show me random crap I couldn’t care less about.

mrinfinitiesx 2y ago
Made a post down below. I scroll for like two minutes before seeing anything local in my town. I only use it to volunteer at places in my town, and it literally showed over 100+ suggested/Follow/sponsored things, the addon I used collapses it all. Dead internet theory. AI generated stuff. Busted algorithms, and attention-soul sucking 'pull me in' psychological warfare ad induced stuff. We need to reclaim our sanity from doom scroll/infinite scrolling. I have it in my /etc/hosts file to be blocked unless I'm at a computer that requires me to log in.
- archerx 2y ago
  I don’t know what is going on at Meta but they are killing their cash cow. I don’t mind the Youtube algorithm, it used to be better but it’s still good enough. I don’t use Youtube with an account so I have gotten good at “training” it and getting it to show stuff I’m actually interested in. The X algorithm is not bad either, if I post art related stuff it will only show me art related stuff.
  - mrinfinitiesx 2y ago
    I removed the finger-printing from my browser with degoogle: https://github.com/tycrek/degoogle https://github.com/tycrek/degoogle - Alternatives to google/other big platforms. Firefox addons at the top. I scream this and my love for Linux from the rooftops, hoping other people show the love for the internet and things like I do and don't put up with the exploitation. It's _OUR_ psychyes and their psychological manipulation, and our future generations they're going after. And you can check your fingerprints with: https://coveryourtracks.eff.org/ https://coveryourtracks.eff.org/ that has a adtrack company that openly shows how it fingerprints you, with WebGL, canvas'ing, timestamps. I have the random timestamp addon, random user-agents, canvas blocker, exfil data, Ublock origin. The 0.0.0.0 day 'Port Scanner' -> https://github.com/garywill/LAN-port-scan-forbidder https://github.com/garywill/LAN-port-scan-forbidder Yeah, they can use JS to ping stuff on our LANs to fingerprint too. It's an internet hellscape out there. Most people don't care. I do.
    - eddyg 2y ago
      > I removed the finger-printing from my browser Out of curiosity, does it successfully block https://fingerprint.com/ https://fingerprint.com/?
  - input_sh 2y ago
    > The X algorithm is not bad either, if I post art related stuff it will only show me art related stuff. Highly disagree. I'm down to one hyperspecific account that follows hundreds of people, and my "for you" page might as well be someone else's. Literally nothing there matches the purpose of the account. I'm also convinced that clicking "not interested" doesn't do anything because every time I click it, I can just refresh the tab and see the exact same tweet all over again.
    - PaulHoule 2y ago
      A “dislike button” that really worked on social media would overturn their business completely.
    - Sylamore 2y ago
parpfish 2y ago
I have a FB account with no friends and a pseudonym that I just use for being able to check the pages of local businesses (it’s usually the only way to see hours because nobody has normal websites anymore) The garbage that they serve up on my feed is astounding. When they don’t have any info from “friends” to populate it, it looks exactly like a collection of chumbox ads
- archerx 2y ago
  At this point I think it’s less of an algorithm and more of a random number generator that picks out spam to show to people.
  - parpfish 2y ago
    I feel like most companies would have a discussion about “what’s the new user experience? How do we make a cold start enticing so people want to give us more time and data?” The Facebook experience when you have no connections is so horrid that I’m guessing they don’t put much thought into new users anymore. They already have everyone
    - 998244353 2y ago
      In fact, Facebook is so sure they already have everyone that new users are often flagged as suspicious and banned by their automated tools without even doing anything. No other site could afford to do that.
      - rty32 2y ago
        Worse than that. I have a Facebook account that is at least 16 years old (yes, from the very first years of Facebook's existence) that I log in a few times a year when I have to use Facebook to do something. I don't post or read anybody's post -- a few years ago I unfollowed everybody (but still remain connected), just like what this article says. I might have actually used this tool but I am not sure. Guess what, my 2-factor auth enabled account got disabled for absolutely no reason. Same login location, same browser. I had to do a stupid video verification to reenable the account, something I refused to do for opening an Instagram account.
sroussey 2y ago
Do you advertise the Twitter account? That is, do you pay for the blue checkmark? Just curious
- archerx 2y ago
  No blue check mark and I don’t pay for twitter and I don’t advertise it, not even my friends and family know about it.
RajT88 2y ago
Same - the friends it churns up posts from tend to be the ones posting inflammatory political garbage. Unfollowing them doesn't always stick, I've observed. I call this the "facebook oopsie" - "oops we reset your privacy settings - again". Facebook ads are egregiously bad. Overwhelmingly scammy: Drop-shippers pretending they are having a going-out-of-business sale, products priced double or triple where they are priced elsewhere. And of course, I've started seeing straight up malvertising campaigns which somehow made it through review. ("somehow" being - paid ads get little scrutiny) If Facebook groups hadn't totally taken over a few communities I want to be a part of (car enthusiast groups, local fishing groups), I would probably never check it. Actually, less and less my friends and family post there, preferring other social networks, if any. #DeleteFacebook
- grogenaut 2y ago
  Tangential question what's a good group site these days?
  - mrinfinitiesx 2y ago
    There's things like https://www.meetup.com/ https://www.meetup.com/ but honestly I haven't found any. The dead internet theory seems true. I block reddit, facebook, x, etc in /etc/hosts - Search top 100 websites by traffic and see what's really going on and who owns what.. I've been on the lookout for one. Wish there was a cool one. I go out and volunteer for sanity. The issue is, the big platforms are where everybody else is. To them, the internet IS facebook, insta, X, etc.. To us, it's something more.
    - manuelmoreale 2y ago
      I know this will sound weird but I found plenty of connections thanks to my blog: by writing about things I find interesting, by encouraging people to connect via email, and by emailing people whose writing I found interesting. There’s plenty of good humanity still out there, but it requires effort and it’s hard to find.
yardstick 2y ago
Try find the Feeds section, from there you can select Friends. On iPhone it’s in More -> Feeds. They really work to hide it. The main caveat is it only shows a few days worth of activity. But it’s still better than the main feed.
- archerx 2y ago
  I used to do this but it would keep reverting me back to the spam feed so I just gave up on FB.
- jakub_g 2y ago
  Whoa, I never noticed that, thanks! Given how bad yet time sucking the default wall became, I hope this will make me reduce my time in there.
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Zambyte 2y ago
> I just want to check up on what my friends and family are up to Literally just call them. You don't even have to ask for permission. Cold call them. If they don't want to talk now, they won't answer. That's fine. Call again another time. In the last year I have just started cold calling my friends and family. It's been great.
- amelius 2y ago
  For a long time my main use of Facebook was to check what events my friends were attending, and to check which events had which people going. At some point Facebook crippled those features. Maybe for good reasons (I guess the possibility of stalking might be one). But in any case, I use Facebook much less now.
- wk_end 2y ago
  The success of this seems highly dependent on the nature of your social circle. I would probably be less inclined to be friends with someone who was randomly calling me for awkward chats about what I'm up to.
  - afthonos 2y ago
    I think GP’s approach is optimized towards a smaller but closer-knit group of friends. Facebook does the opposite: it makes you feel like you have hundreds or thousands of friends when in reality you may not communicate with any of them at all. Of course, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a close-knit group of friends, or a few close friends, and communicate Facebook-style. But Facebook points you a different way.
  - manuelmoreale 2y ago
    I mean, if you’re friend with someone it shouldn’t be “awkward chats”. It should just be a chat with a friend that wants to know if you’re doing great and knowing what you’re up to.
    - em-bee 2y ago
      the problem is that reaching this level of friendship is difficult. it depends on both people to be open and the ability and willingness to show they care, but also on opportunity. in my experience this is usually connected to some difficult situation that allows one or both to engage. for example of the few close friends that i have, one invited me to a private blog where he detailed his personal challenges over the decades. his level of trust made it easy for me to return that trust, and when i needed help/advice it was easy to turn to him. another i met a few months ago, and he likewise went out of his way to help out in a challenging situation. if he ever asks me for help, no doubt i will return the favor. and if either ask how i am doing, i have no doubt it is genuine. but then, if anyone else would send such a message i would approach it with the same assumption. there was another friend that i met many years ago, where i had the feeling that we could become close friends, but we lost touch. but writing this comment motivated me to reach out. let's see what happens. what would make chats awkward is if the topics never go beyond smalltalk. if every so often a message exchange is like: hi, how are you? how are the kids? i am fine, kids are doing well. how about you? likewise thanks. and the conversation keeps remaining at that level, then i start wondering, why are we even talking. there has got to be more.
ljm 2y ago
Isn't this a variation on a theme? A lot of current unrest revolves around people feeling ignored and unrepresented because of the global aspirations of tech and government.
pndy 2y ago
> a flood on unsolicited spam from pages I’m not interested in or want to see Dunno what kind of weird experiment they were conducting last December but once I start scrolling, I was getting AI generated images of really poor quality accompanied by comments from bot profiles among normal stuff, obviously out of chronological order from my friend's list. Not that I'm visiting that page that often - on contrary; every few months to see if those who don't have anything beside messenger want something.
paul7986 2y ago
Indeed and WTH is Zuckerberg thinking as I saw him say stuffing our feeds with posts from not our friends & family is the way forward. It's annoying as I'm constantly clicking the X. I'm on Facebook to follow family & friends and groups I joined not other groups I didn't!
- archerx 2y ago
  Clicking the X is useless. I just stopped going on Facebook.
verisimi 2y ago
> I have an experiment going on, I have an art account on insta and X, every night I post the same image to both and X gives a lot more views and engagement than Instagram for the same content. Also it seems like the X algorithm is smarter than FB/instagram because it shows me similar art to what I post and keeps the correct vibe. Insta/FB show me random crap I couldn’t care less about. You post the same image? And then you're happy you get more engagement from x? I don't get your experiment... You want lots of engagement when you post boring content repeatedly?
- Dylan16807 2y ago
  Same image on both sites, not same image over and over.
  - genewitch 2y ago
    i don't even understand how they came up with that interpretation. English is weird, but not that weird. "each night, i choose one image, and upload it to both x and insta" i guess would be less ambiguous?
j45 2y ago
Individually visiting profiles seems to change the feed a little. One guess is if social media engagement isn't as high as desired, users are increasingly presented with alternatives to take them in different directions until they're more engaged, or at such a deficit of dopamine they will be ready to jump to the next thing, maybe like a tik tok? Today, if a social media network made and kept it about people and not algorithms calculating the topically desired outcome of one company, maybe there would be a different usage. People have historically learned how to tune out certain forms of media when or if they became too focused on topics not aligned to them, including advertising. Newspapers, Radio, TV.. Hyper personalization may be an option, but if the result of it is distance and not supporting authentications in real life and not digitally, the brain is wired for one for the former a lot longer than the latter. An example of this is how much more.. vivid spending time in person with someone was after not being around people as much during the pandemic.
qingcharles 2y ago
Apparently Facebook just added an "Unseen Friends Updates" feature to try to combat this: https://www.threads.net/@theahmedghanem/post/C_A6XLJNOaJ https://www.threads.net/@theahmedghanem/post/C_A6XLJNOaJ
EasyMark 2y ago
When I go there it just seems like a ghost town. I actually undid all my “likes” of various groups and companies etc and it quietened down dramatically. Not that many people are posting there and mostly I just have a few relative/friends groups going and that’s about it, and what it’s good for. I wish I could get them to move to signal or even WhatsApp and nothing but crickets.
slowmovintarget 2y ago
If content is driven at you by algorithm it's not your feed, it's their feed.
seoulmetro 2y ago
Your mistake is assuming Facebook's algorithm isn't written to be exactly like you explained. "The algorithm is poor" is not a thing anymore, algorithms are easy to get right and even easier to break on purpose for their own benefit. No large corporation actually serves their algorithm for you any more. That's why TikTok got so popular, their algorithm actually worked for you for a long time.

mrinfinitiesx 2y ago

Made a post down below. I scroll for like two minutes before seeing anything local in my town. I only use it to volunteer at places in my town, and it literally showed over 100+ suggested/Follow/sponsored things, the addon I used collapses it all. Dead internet theory. AI generated stuff. Busted algorithms, and attention-soul sucking 'pull me in' psychological warfare ad induced stuff. We need to reclaim our sanity from doom scroll/infinite scrolling. I have it in my /etc/hosts file to be blocked unless I'm at a computer that requires me to log in.

archerx 2y ago
I don’t know what is going on at Meta but they are killing their cash cow. I don’t mind the Youtube algorithm, it used to be better but it’s still good enough. I don’t use Youtube with an account so I have gotten good at “training” it and getting it to show stuff I’m actually interested in. The X algorithm is not bad either, if I post art related stuff it will only show me art related stuff.
- mrinfinitiesx 2y ago
  I removed the finger-printing from my browser with degoogle: https://github.com/tycrek/degoogle https://github.com/tycrek/degoogle - Alternatives to google/other big platforms. Firefox addons at the top. I scream this and my love for Linux from the rooftops, hoping other people show the love for the internet and things like I do and don't put up with the exploitation. It's _OUR_ psychyes and their psychological manipulation, and our future generations they're going after. And you can check your fingerprints with: https://coveryourtracks.eff.org/ https://coveryourtracks.eff.org/ that has a adtrack company that openly shows how it fingerprints you, with WebGL, canvas'ing, timestamps. I have the random timestamp addon, random user-agents, canvas blocker, exfil data, Ublock origin. The 0.0.0.0 day 'Port Scanner' -> https://github.com/garywill/LAN-port-scan-forbidder https://github.com/garywill/LAN-port-scan-forbidder Yeah, they can use JS to ping stuff on our LANs to fingerprint too. It's an internet hellscape out there. Most people don't care. I do.
  - eddyg 2y ago
    > I removed the finger-printing from my browser Out of curiosity, does it successfully block https://fingerprint.com/ https://fingerprint.com/?
- input_sh 2y ago
  > The X algorithm is not bad either, if I post art related stuff it will only show me art related stuff. Highly disagree. I'm down to one hyperspecific account that follows hundreds of people, and my "for you" page might as well be someone else's. Literally nothing there matches the purpose of the account. I'm also convinced that clicking "not interested" doesn't do anything because every time I click it, I can just refresh the tab and see the exact same tweet all over again.
  - PaulHoule 2y ago
    A “dislike button” that really worked on social media would overturn their business completely.
  - Sylamore 2y ago

parpfish 2y ago

I have a FB account with no friends and a pseudonym that I just use for being able to check the pages of local businesses (it’s usually the only way to see hours because nobody has normal websites anymore) The garbage that they serve up on my feed is astounding. When they don’t have any info from “friends” to populate it, it looks exactly like a collection of chumbox ads

archerx 2y ago
At this point I think it’s less of an algorithm and more of a random number generator that picks out spam to show to people.
- parpfish 2y ago
  I feel like most companies would have a discussion about “what’s the new user experience? How do we make a cold start enticing so people want to give us more time and data?” The Facebook experience when you have no connections is so horrid that I’m guessing they don’t put much thought into new users anymore. They already have everyone
  - 998244353 2y ago
    In fact, Facebook is so sure they already have everyone that new users are often flagged as suspicious and banned by their automated tools without even doing anything. No other site could afford to do that.
    - rty32 2y ago
      Worse than that. I have a Facebook account that is at least 16 years old (yes, from the very first years of Facebook's existence) that I log in a few times a year when I have to use Facebook to do something. I don't post or read anybody's post -- a few years ago I unfollowed everybody (but still remain connected), just like what this article says. I might have actually used this tool but I am not sure. Guess what, my 2-factor auth enabled account got disabled for absolutely no reason. Same login location, same browser. I had to do a stupid video verification to reenable the account, something I refused to do for opening an Instagram account.

sroussey 2y ago

Do you advertise the Twitter account? That is, do you pay for the blue checkmark? Just curious

archerx 2y ago
No blue check mark and I don’t pay for twitter and I don’t advertise it, not even my friends and family know about it.

RajT88 2y ago

Same - the friends it churns up posts from tend to be the ones posting inflammatory political garbage. Unfollowing them doesn't always stick, I've observed. I call this the "facebook oopsie" - "oops we reset your privacy settings - again". Facebook ads are egregiously bad. Overwhelmingly scammy: Drop-shippers pretending they are having a going-out-of-business sale, products priced double or triple where they are priced elsewhere. And of course, I've started seeing straight up malvertising campaigns which somehow made it through review. ("somehow" being - paid ads get little scrutiny) If Facebook groups hadn't totally taken over a few communities I want to be a part of (car enthusiast groups, local fishing groups), I would probably never check it. Actually, less and less my friends and family post there, preferring other social networks, if any. #DeleteFacebook

grogenaut 2y ago
Tangential question what's a good group site these days?
- mrinfinitiesx 2y ago
  There's things like https://www.meetup.com/ https://www.meetup.com/ but honestly I haven't found any. The dead internet theory seems true. I block reddit, facebook, x, etc in /etc/hosts - Search top 100 websites by traffic and see what's really going on and who owns what.. I've been on the lookout for one. Wish there was a cool one. I go out and volunteer for sanity. The issue is, the big platforms are where everybody else is. To them, the internet IS facebook, insta, X, etc.. To us, it's something more.
  - manuelmoreale 2y ago
    I know this will sound weird but I found plenty of connections thanks to my blog: by writing about things I find interesting, by encouraging people to connect via email, and by emailing people whose writing I found interesting. There’s plenty of good humanity still out there, but it requires effort and it’s hard to find.

yardstick 2y ago

Try find the Feeds section, from there you can select Friends. On iPhone it’s in More -> Feeds. They really work to hide it. The main caveat is it only shows a few days worth of activity. But it’s still better than the main feed.

archerx 2y ago
I used to do this but it would keep reverting me back to the spam feed so I just gave up on FB.
jakub_g 2y ago
Whoa, I never noticed that, thanks! Given how bad yet time sucking the default wall became, I hope this will make me reduce my time in there.

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Zambyte 2y ago

> I just want to check up on what my friends and family are up to Literally just call them. You don't even have to ask for permission. Cold call them. If they don't want to talk now, they won't answer. That's fine. Call again another time. In the last year I have just started cold calling my friends and family. It's been great.

amelius 2y ago
For a long time my main use of Facebook was to check what events my friends were attending, and to check which events had which people going. At some point Facebook crippled those features. Maybe for good reasons (I guess the possibility of stalking might be one). But in any case, I use Facebook much less now.
wk_end 2y ago
The success of this seems highly dependent on the nature of your social circle. I would probably be less inclined to be friends with someone who was randomly calling me for awkward chats about what I'm up to.
- afthonos 2y ago
  I think GP’s approach is optimized towards a smaller but closer-knit group of friends. Facebook does the opposite: it makes you feel like you have hundreds or thousands of friends when in reality you may not communicate with any of them at all. Of course, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a close-knit group of friends, or a few close friends, and communicate Facebook-style. But Facebook points you a different way.
- manuelmoreale 2y ago
  I mean, if you’re friend with someone it shouldn’t be “awkward chats”. It should just be a chat with a friend that wants to know if you’re doing great and knowing what you’re up to.
  - em-bee 2y ago
    the problem is that reaching this level of friendship is difficult. it depends on both people to be open and the ability and willingness to show they care, but also on opportunity. in my experience this is usually connected to some difficult situation that allows one or both to engage. for example of the few close friends that i have, one invited me to a private blog where he detailed his personal challenges over the decades. his level of trust made it easy for me to return that trust, and when i needed help/advice it was easy to turn to him. another i met a few months ago, and he likewise went out of his way to help out in a challenging situation. if he ever asks me for help, no doubt i will return the favor. and if either ask how i am doing, i have no doubt it is genuine. but then, if anyone else would send such a message i would approach it with the same assumption. there was another friend that i met many years ago, where i had the feeling that we could become close friends, but we lost touch. but writing this comment motivated me to reach out. let's see what happens. what would make chats awkward is if the topics never go beyond smalltalk. if every so often a message exchange is like: hi, how are you? how are the kids? i am fine, kids are doing well. how about you? likewise thanks. and the conversation keeps remaining at that level, then i start wondering, why are we even talking. there has got to be more.

ljm 2y ago

Isn't this a variation on a theme? A lot of current unrest revolves around people feeling ignored and unrepresented because of the global aspirations of tech and government.

pndy 2y ago

> a flood on unsolicited spam from pages I’m not interested in or want to see Dunno what kind of weird experiment they were conducting last December but once I start scrolling, I was getting AI generated images of really poor quality accompanied by comments from bot profiles among normal stuff, obviously out of chronological order from my friend's list. Not that I'm visiting that page that often - on contrary; every few months to see if those who don't have anything beside messenger want something.

paul7986 2y ago

Indeed and WTH is Zuckerberg thinking as I saw him say stuffing our feeds with posts from not our friends & family is the way forward. It's annoying as I'm constantly clicking the X. I'm on Facebook to follow family & friends and groups I joined not other groups I didn't!

archerx 2y ago
Clicking the X is useless. I just stopped going on Facebook.

verisimi 2y ago

> I have an experiment going on, I have an art account on insta and X, every night I post the same image to both and X gives a lot more views and engagement than Instagram for the same content. Also it seems like the X algorithm is smarter than FB/instagram because it shows me similar art to what I post and keeps the correct vibe. Insta/FB show me random crap I couldn’t care less about. You post the same image? And then you're happy you get more engagement from x? I don't get your experiment... You want lots of engagement when you post boring content repeatedly?

Dylan16807 2y ago
Same image on both sites, not same image over and over.
- genewitch 2y ago
  i don't even understand how they came up with that interpretation. English is weird, but not that weird. "each night, i choose one image, and upload it to both x and insta" i guess would be less ambiguous?

j45 2y ago

Individually visiting profiles seems to change the feed a little. One guess is if social media engagement isn't as high as desired, users are increasingly presented with alternatives to take them in different directions until they're more engaged, or at such a deficit of dopamine they will be ready to jump to the next thing, maybe like a tik tok? Today, if a social media network made and kept it about people and not algorithms calculating the topically desired outcome of one company, maybe there would be a different usage. People have historically learned how to tune out certain forms of media when or if they became too focused on topics not aligned to them, including advertising. Newspapers, Radio, TV.. Hyper personalization may be an option, but if the result of it is distance and not supporting authentications in real life and not digitally, the brain is wired for one for the former a lot longer than the latter. An example of this is how much more.. vivid spending time in person with someone was after not being around people as much during the pandemic.

qingcharles 2y ago

Apparently Facebook just added an "Unseen Friends Updates" feature to try to combat this: https://www.threads.net/@theahmedghanem/post/C_A6XLJNOaJ https://www.threads.net/@theahmedghanem/post/C_A6XLJNOaJ

EasyMark 2y ago

When I go there it just seems like a ghost town. I actually undid all my “likes” of various groups and companies etc and it quietened down dramatically. Not that many people are posting there and mostly I just have a few relative/friends groups going and that’s about it, and what it’s good for. I wish I could get them to move to signal or even WhatsApp and nothing but crickets.

slowmovintarget 2y ago

If content is driven at you by algorithm it's not your feed, it's their feed.

seoulmetro 2y ago

Your mistake is assuming Facebook's algorithm isn't written to be exactly like you explained. "The algorithm is poor" is not a thing anymore, algorithms are easy to get right and even easier to break on purpose for their own benefit. No large corporation actually serves their algorithm for you any more. That's why TikTok got so popular, their algorithm actually worked for you for a long time.