xupybd

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by xupybd 4y ago
>This is quite a reach. Sorry, I'm not going to argue any longer why "has a six pack" or "dresses nicely" are not a personality traits. No they're evidence of personality traits.
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by xupybd 4y ago
Maybe I'm too simple to notice but I don't detect any pseudo intellectualism. He makes a point and talks about it. There doesn't appear to be an attempt to come off smarter than he is.
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by xupybd 4y ago
> Majority of things you mentioned are not personality traits. Here are the things I listed: Confidence and the ability to talk are huge You're social status among your peer group. How well you dress. Do you look
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by xupybd 4y ago
I say less shallow as they are personality traits not purely physical. I'm interested in knowing what you would consider less shallow. Unless your point is that attraction is shallow. That I could see. >Also, you know that "gen
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by xupybd 4y ago
I'm not sure I understand where you're coming from. What traits, that are found attractive, would you describe as less shallow?
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by xupybd 4y ago
I lived for years too poor to heat. Mold is a real issue. No amount of cleaning and ventilation makes up for not heating your home. In my last year of study I was writing up my honours project and I had to stop to wipe the condensation off
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by xupybd 4y ago
https://norsewear.co.nz/
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by xupybd 4y ago
For some reason reading your username after reading your comment made me crack up. I think your personality lines up.
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by xupybd 4y ago
That's kind of a hall monitor position of power. Yeah, you appear to be in power but the first person to get annoyed with you is still going to stuff you in a locker. It shows these guys don't know what they're doing. You don
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by xupybd 4y ago
That's a pretty weak hand really. It's not like they're in competition with the other students. They're also offering to help pass on that knowledge in exchange for attention from women. That's not a power move.
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by xupybd 4y ago
I hope it is as good as they report. I'm a bit worried about the weight. That thing looks huge.
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by xupybd 4y ago
While this is true, you have a lot more control over this than you may realize. Especially if you're a male seeking a female. Most men think they same physical characteristics they're interested in will be appealing to the opposit
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by xupybd 4y ago
I suspect the problem is not harassment but social incompetence. If the young men are anything like I was their approach will be less than smooth. I can see how that would get tiring over time.
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by xupybd 4y ago
No flirting doesn't begin with hitting on someone. It's a game two people play. They edge closer to hitting on each other. Each time gauging the response. If the other person is not playing you'll never reach the point where
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by xupybd 4y ago
No but there are social queues for this. Flirting is exactly that. Friendly small talk to see if the other person is receptive or not. If you're like me and are probably slightly autistic with very little social interaction growing up,
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by xupybd 4y ago
I don't think that taking a class to get to know single women of your own age is disrespectful. Do we know they are objectifying? The post said this was about finding a future wife.
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by xupybd 4y ago
I want this sort of product. It is exactly the use case I have for VR but what I have heard is that existing VR is no good for office / programming work, as the text is not crisp enough. There are also complaints around the comfort of
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by xupybd 4y ago
One of the best things I've seen that integrates SQL with your code is F#'s type providers. http://fsprojects.github.io/SQLProvider/ It's amazing how it all works. But only when it works. I've found
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by xupybd 4y ago
Many developers, good developers haven't worked with complex SQL queries. So on seeing one they can sometimes think it's quicker to redo this in a language I know rather than upskill enough to understand this.
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by xupybd 4y ago
I'm happy to hit the flag button if you'd like? If enough of us do that it should bury the post.
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by xupybd 4y ago
Please don't dox
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by xupybd 4y ago
The bad news is that it was easy to go from your HN username to figure out your company and problem CTO (I'd recommend a burner account for a question like this). Sorry, that looks like a horrible mess you have on your hands. The good
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by xupybd 4y ago
Yeah, here in NZ we keep our eggs on the bench for weeks before using them. A quick test to see if they float in water before cooking them lets you know that they're safe.
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by xupybd 4y ago
As someone that is about 30kg overweight, no my body can't carry that weight for a run. I used to run 5km 3 times a week. That was about 15kg ago. It was okay but now my knees just can't take that punishment. My shoes can't h
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by xupybd 4y ago
This week I learned that a 3% credit card fee is a similar cost to offering 30 day terms on B2B transactions of you have to borrow from the bank to cover it. Only you get better cash flow and customers can get rewards. And thanks to this po
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by xupybd 4y ago
They over reach in every political direction. That is a problem as if they're stacked left or right they'll unfairly bias the system.
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by xupybd 4y ago
That is one of the goals of CRT. But one of assumptions is that lack of equity is evidence of systemic oppression, there are arguments for and against this idea. There are claims that it is the modern adaption of Marxist theories into the r
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by xupybd 4y ago
While I understand your point I think that ruling came down to the technicalities of constitutional law. It should not be up to the judicial branch to make laws only interpret them. If there is a problem with the law congress needs to fix i
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by xupybd 4y ago
We have wanted to home school for years but the more I think about it the better it seems. Social values around the world seem to be diverging. States will now struggle to offer families an education that matches their values. They'll
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by xupybd 4y ago
It's been amazing. Yeah I'm using fable. I think there is an early Svelte version. The strength is shared code between the back end and front end. The same types and validation logic. I like Elmish but I'm still prone to crea

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