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3y ago
Hey, OP here. The abuse you experienced was terrifying. I'm really sorry that you went through it. I am glad you got out. In my case, I feel comfortable trying to make amends with my dad because 1.) I feel pretty certain about my bound
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3y ago
Hey, OP here. I'm really touched that you read the entire piece. I poured a lot of myself into it, so thanks from the bottom of my heart. I had a different problem with relationships. I opened up quickly enough, but my partners grew up
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3y ago
Hey, author here. I appreciate your reflections here. One of my motivations for writing this essay is that the difficulty of Asian family dynamics is rarely talked about, despite it being something that many of us seem to face. I have dream
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3y ago
Hey, author here. Thank you so much for taking the time to write a thoughtful comment. I had no idea what the response to this essay would be, so I'm really grateful that you read it in the first place and that the essay moved you.