throw44441

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   by throw44441 2y ago

   I do agree that some aspect of hikkidom applies to me, but I regularly go out and have no real problem running errands in public. I'm not a NEET either since I have plenty of education and employment history. What I believe is that the
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   by throw44441 2y ago

   For what it's worth, I did enjoy reading Gabor Mate and his writing gave some reassurance that addiction is a common way of responding to trauma. Although in my mind, sometimes it verges on "well, I guess I have to be addicted to
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   by throw44441 2y ago

   I think this is pretty much correct. The problems I deal with, if they are to be called problems, do not stem from a lack of information. They are largely the same ones I dealt with 5 or 10 years ago. Admittedly it took a long time since ch
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   by throw44441 2y ago

   I think earlier in my life it was "afraid of taking risks" nearly 100% of the time. I had a lot of (social) risks I took over many years that didn't work out and the emotional component of it not working hit me much more stro
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   by throw44441 2y ago

   This is only an anecdote so I won't assume my situation applies to everyone. As a person in their early 30's who has never dated, I thought about this kind of thing recently and concluded I don't really know what I want out o