ta201909

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   by ta201909 7y ago

   Thank you for the thoughtful response, it’s very helpful. Actually I think I am the one who was raised with extremely maladaptive and toxic argument patterns by watching my parents, and I’m struggling to change because I didn’t have the cha
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   by ta201909 7y ago

   > there's a huge spectrum of communication options between "I agree" and "Let's fight about this." How do you do this in practice? If your partner wants to to something that you disagree with already, and bo
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   by ta201909 7y ago

   Thanks for taking the time to write about this and articulating what I’m living through too. Looking forward to the replies and the books recommended here.
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   by ta201909 7y ago

   I’ve read those, but unfortunately it didn’t change much my current relationship, same struggles as the op.