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by me_im_counting 5y ago
It’s interesting how my comment seems to be taken as an assertion in the opposite direction: that women have it categorically worse in divorce. I believe that reality is much, much more nuanced than either “direction”. That being said, who
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
I actually am quite sympathetic to challenges facing men, and agree that many don’t seem to care. For example, the utter lack of sympathy for male victims of marital infidelity is mind blowing to me. Women tend to be supported when their hu
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
Yeah, that does seem to be true, not that I have particular expertise on that. Sorry that you’ve had to experience that firsthand and I hope things get better for you. I think men and women have their unique challenge “clusters” with divorc
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
Are they? At least among wealthy men, it seems much more common for them to remarry and make a brand new second family while the ex wife is left doing most things for the first set of kids. Plus, it’s significantly more common for men to le
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
I’m a woman, and none of my smartest friends are interested in having more than 2 children. A few aren’t interested in having any. I’m the weirdo who wants 3, but I don’t see why I should be part of someone’s experiments when I can find a
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
It's not drilling on the technical side. It's drilling the experience that produces anxiety (performing it to an interviewer).
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
I never had test anxiety growing up and didn't really empathize with why someone would (sympathized obviously). But solving a problem in FRONT of someone as they are evaluating me (rather than a normal collaboration) triggers a panic.
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
If this is true, it's interesting that we didn't evolve toward a higher median intelligence.
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
I wonder if there will be better remote development support on vscode.dev? It used to work well for me, but in recent releases the remote functionality has gotten so flaky...
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
It’s interesting how much SQL, a declarative language, requires thinking about performance. In theory, declarative languages would allow the user to think less about imperative concerns like the query plan. I’ve rewritten the same SQL query
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
I looked through your site, and was a bit confused. How does this help you monitor technical debt specifically? This seems like traditional engineering issue tracking but I may be missing something.
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
I wish the author had expanded more. It would have been great to hear about the most frequent types of bugs they logged and other mitigation strategies.
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
There seems to be a giant elephant in the room with this analysis. Where is the cost of manufacturing the extra car? 10 people can ride in the same rideshare car in one day, but they would each need their own vehicle if they didn't do
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
Liquidity preference is the oft-overlooked feature here. People commonly think that because they have 1% of the shares, they will get 1% of the sales price, and that's rarely the case. Even if the company shares with you the liquidity
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by me_im_counting 5y ago
The "Disabling Import Elision" section is interesting - I didn't realize that modules used inside string formatters would be automatically removed by the unused module remover. It just goes to show how hard it is to anticipat