lystlaunt

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   by lystlaunt 5y ago

   I would operationalize it by simplifying it to habits: -Avoid declining invitations to go out, unless it's really necessary -Try to find other people who don't like drinking. Most of my work colleagues don't drink, and a coup
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   by lystlaunt 5y ago

   This is interesting to read as I'm pretty introverted, so I've taken the opposite approach. I avoid talking about it because I expect to be treated differently in a negative way by work colleagues if I admit it, and I don't k
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   by lystlaunt 5y ago

   It's a hard problem because people's individual psychologies are so different; more concretely, what works for one person might not for another. Here's what worked for me. In terms of thoughts, I rejected the conditioning (ma
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   by lystlaunt 5y ago

   > In theory once you make that list you know what's next right? In practice, I may have three or more to-do items that I could choose between working on now, with roughly similar priority levels. That can cause analysis paralysis,