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lonelyengineer
8y ago
Thank you, it wasnt long before I started thinking if I was undesirable because of my physical features AND my attitude. It's a slow process and I hope I too can one day have a normal life, with someone by my side.
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
I respect myself and women to know this won't solve it. I don't really care for lack of sex, its the lack of love cuts deep.
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
Thank you. I probably have some deep seated issues that I seem to be working with, one of the women I had attracted to had said some remarks (about a third person) about these features and I implicitly assumed that most women looked for tho
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
I have no such detailed lists. I'm human and flawed, some of it stems from not accepting myself and a lack of self-love.
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
Thank you for your kind words. I do need therapy, I would dismiss such suggestions when I was young and foolish, it's funny how a few years make you realise that one isn't normal as they perceived themselves to be. I don't pl
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
Thank you for your kind words. I'm guilty of underestimating myself, and recently a friend told me that as I quoted $28/hour for building an e-commerce platform store. I've never had attention from a woman, and usually I find
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
Thank you for your kind words. I honestly don't think I'm a low value mate. I've demonstrated loyalty and my friends know this. But not yet a high value mate as I'm in the market for a job + student loans, fear of drivin
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lonelyengineer
8y ago
I can relate to this, I'm a 30 year old virgin, graduated with tech-related masters degree, and still a virgin. I don't resent women, I love women and some of my best friends are women, but I can't see myself ever having a ph