hie6Rofogo

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   by hie6Rofogo 9y ago

   I didn't come to the BPD conclusion until pretty recently. Previously I figured it was the stereotypical situation where the husband is insensitive and cannot communicate what he means. I mean, I am insensitive, I know that. So, it
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   by hie6Rofogo 9y ago

   For my wife, I believe childhood events triggered her as well. She grew up in China, not long after the cultural revolution. Her dad was barely home due to traveling for work. Her mother was controlling to an absurd degree. I am concerned
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   by hie6Rofogo 9y ago

   Thank you, I think I should pursue the couples therapy. I'm a little scared of therapy as it seems like there is a lot of "cargo cult" type therapy and I want something that is based on actual science so it has a chance of h
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   by hie6Rofogo 9y ago

   Divorce has been considered but I still think it is not the best option. I am a very patient and understanding person, at least, IMHO. Our children are happy and well adjusted. I think a divorce would be bad for all parties involved alth
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   by hie6Rofogo 9y ago

   [Throwaway account, for obvious reasons.] I'm pretty sure my wife has BPD. To me, it seems hopeless for her to get treated. I haven't brought it up with her, I expect that would go poorly. One of the main symptoms is that she f