dontknowwhatdo

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   by dontknowwhatdo 6y ago

   Yes, I have felt this way too for a long time, but this articulates it well. Thank you to you and @ncaroll for persisting with this conversation. I'll make sure I educate my children on this aspect so they don't have unrealistic e
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   by dontknowwhatdo 6y ago

   Actually, that helps I think, thank you!
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   by dontknowwhatdo 6y ago

   Thank you. In so far as my past actions have only largely affected me I am able to deal with regret stoically. It is much harder to come to terms with it when the regret is for actions which have affected others.
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   by dontknowwhatdo 6y ago

   Thank you to everyone who took the time to reply (especially @pdfernhout). There is a lot of food for thought here. You are right that it is many life experiences which has shaped my wife into the person she is now, and I am partly to blame
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   by dontknowwhatdo 6y ago

   I can attest to this. Being right means nothing in a relationship unless it is combined with compassion. I've been married for 20 years, and life now sucks as I am belittled or criticised on a regular basis. My children and I constant