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How to Manage Over-Assertiveness
(medium.dave-bailey.com)
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A Business Plan Is Not a Strategy
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How to Under-Complicate Your Product (and Save Money)
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There's an interesting point around whether people want what they need, or need what they want. Here's a two-by-two matrix: Need but don't want, e.g. vegetables. Want but don't need, e.g. click-bate. Want and need, e.g.
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How to under-complicate your product
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Having read all of the comments to this article, it's quite impressive how quickly people lost sight of the conflict, and took sides with whoever they empathised most with. I included enough facts to elicit a trigger response for anyon
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> Nope, he doubles down, just saying that it will be awkward at first but that you'll learn Dave here. The point of the article was in fact not at all that NVC is awkward and you'll have to learn, but to say there are valuable
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> NVC and NVC-like forms of communication work when the participants are relatively equal in power Could you suggest a general approach to mitigating conflict when there is inequality in power without getting to the specifics, listening
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Just to clarify, asking how are you feeling isn't NVC. Getting to the specifics of a contentious issue, and then asking how you feel about them is. Also, what you say about vulnerability being incidental to connection contradicts a lot
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I honestly don't understand your point. Listening to how you feel (you're frustrated) and uncovering out why (you want to be treated like an adult) isn't theatre, it's how adult resolve problems. It's worth consider
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While there's lots of interesting points in the thread, I'll focus my response on this one. 1) I completely agree that the title 'Nonviolent' is awful. It doesn't even follow the NVC principle of 'say what you
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A smart way to resolve team conflicts
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How to resolve a conflict when both sides are right
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What to do if your startup is running out of cash
(marker.medium.com)
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How to Manage a Business That’s Running Out of Cash
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How to Clarify Your Long-Term Strategy
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How to Clarify Your Long-Term Strategy
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Communication Patterns for Leadership
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How to Motivate a High-Performing Team
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How to Get Your Team to Want to Work Longer Hours
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I believe I heard this from Astro Teller of Google X... However, I can't find a trace of it online. Anyone heard of this and can provide a source?
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Ask HN: Who had the idea to 'delete all code in 1 yr' to stop over-optimisation?
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How to Discuss Founder Compensation with the Board
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Early-Stage Founders Can Negotiate Their Salary
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The Five Meetings Every CEO Should Lead
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If you go to DaveBailey.com and look in resources, you'll find structured reading lists full of 'friend links', allowing you to access them for free. Hope you enjoy :)
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The Fastest Way to Become a Thought Leader
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How to Write Like a Thought Leader
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This is such a good point. When we don't set up a pattern of regular feedback and the expectation that everyone can improve (even at the top) then feedback takes on a different meaning. I see feedback and learning deeply intertwined in
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Absolutely. In startups, I've seen two of the most valuable skills in a team member is (i) proactivity and (ii) the ability to learn fast. If a founder values (ii), they should pay for something that accelerates it.
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