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cspike
4y ago
Yeah, I spent some time imagining how terrible this was for the manager. You are totally right that I am an unreliable narrator here. I agree with you that we shouldn't draw conclusions about Spotify as a whole here. It's a big co
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cspike
4y ago
Wow, thanks a lot! I agree that I handled the situation very badly. The articles you refer to are exactly the guidance I had needed to learn the lesson less harshly. Sometimes I got advice from senior folk about how to navigate a workplace,
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cspike
4y ago
Yes, you are totally right about the unhelpful urge to "win" and my actions being wrong. Also, exactly as you say, in the end the outcome is negative both for myself and the team. Being viewed unfavorably by potential workplaces b
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cspike
4y ago
You are absolutely right that my actions escalated the situation, and that I shouldn't have done them. One of the lessons from this painful situation is to leave sooner.
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cspike
4y ago
Yeah, I completely agree that I brought the outcome on myself. I'm glad you looked me up on LinkedIn! I have received zero value from that site so my profile there is not serious :)
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A conflict with a manager ended with me being disallowed to work at Spotify
(banned-for-life.com)
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4y ago
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