bradlys

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by bradlys 4y ago
I think age-ism isn’t that relevant when you’re under 40. There will be limited positions for someone who wants staff+ compensation though.
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by bradlys 4y ago
> along with more oil or butter than you traditionally would for a non-stick pan Which means you're trading one health benefit for another.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Rain when it's 40F out hits different. It's not 70 and raining. It makes you much colder.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Man - you grew up in such a sheltered world. The real world is much more cruel for most of us. You might have said you were a "tiny kid" but you were truly never at odds. I was constantly beat up, physically, until I was 16. It wa
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by bradlys 4y ago
I mean - great advice if you’re as big as the bully. As a kid who was often smaller than kids 2-3 younger than him all the way to his senior year in high school… Can’t say that advice would go over well.
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by bradlys 4y ago
> Startups are paying above FAANG for many senior positions. Citation needed.
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by bradlys 4y ago
One aspect that is avoided here is that it’s basically impossible to be a lifer unless you were able to time the housing market. Taking lower wages just isn’t possible for people under 30 if they want a home. If you bought in your early 30s
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by bradlys 4y ago
Sounds like you weren’t in a competitive program that constantly tried to get people to drop from college altogether. I was. Didn’t have anywhere near the free time and the lack of stress I do post-college. Helps that I also make a good chu
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by bradlys 4y ago
Yep. Avoided it for a while. Managed to go to week long dance camps and never get it. Then I spent a few days in NYC and got it in July of 2022. Convinced I got it from the subway or something of the sort. It’s possible I got it elsewhere o
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by bradlys 4y ago
Very few men are going to sex work purely for the physical aspect. They’re going for an emotional component as well. It’s a weird argument to say that the cure for incels is to socialize sex work. It’s not going to solve anything. Most men
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by bradlys 4y ago
The sex work often is at the cost of other things. We might have something relatively safe and financially good for some women. However - this is taking lots of money from men who are unable to attract women. They’re taking money from men
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by bradlys 4y ago
Nah - I have very high self esteem. I just happen to not be good looking. It’s boomer-talk to think that people don’t care about looks these days. The way people date has changed.
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by bradlys 4y ago
They’d like to but they can’t find anyone who’d do it anyway. Moot point about incentives if no one is willing to date you at all. Physical attraction is everything these days.
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by bradlys 4y ago
It’s definitely grim out there for most young men these days. I’m 32 and make the money those girls are looking for but I can’t get a date to save my life cause I don’t have the looks. (Average in almost all aspects) I’ve made offers to my
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by bradlys 4y ago
You’re a very physically attractive man if you managed to get 40 dates in one year. Your experience will be nothing like that of an average looking man.
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by bradlys 4y ago
If everyone is saying you’re not doing your job well then they might have a point. The issue is that’s it’s often just a PM or EM saying it and no one else. Firings are often made based upon how the manager feels and that’s all it takes.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Census data. Table B12002.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Matching is two way - you're liking the homophobe in that scenario too. Tinder is more of a hookup app anyway. It's a different market/mindset.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Can we at least stop posting these dating articles written almost exclusively by straight women? There’s literally nothing new here from these gals - they whine about their own lack of initiation and fear of rejection rather than overcoming
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by bradlys 4y ago
There aren’t. You know why.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Considering this is owned by Match - it really isn’t going to be any better. It’s not in Match’s interest to have this app actually solve societal woes.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Prostitution isn’t going to solve anything here though. Men want love as much as women do. Sex is just another happy aspect of being in a loving relationship. Most men don’t get any more fulfillment from having empty ONS than women do.
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by bradlys 4y ago
You’re seeing couples often are they’ve been together for a while. Many men workout and get into good physical shape. Later they stop going to the gym cause they have someone. Their appetite doesn’t change but their exercise routine did. Th
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by bradlys 4y ago
No one asks this as a first question… That is a strawman. The situation is that you’re thinking there could be interest and are unsure. A lot of women are extremely reserved and as a straight man - anything short of a blatant no is not enou
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by bradlys 4y ago
Technology is not to blame. Capitalism is to blame. Ignorant to say otherwise.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Police just power tripping as usual. I wonder why they don't name and shame the officers - clearly these are the people doing wrong and should be removed from their positions.
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by bradlys 4y ago
Or they are considered valuable but we have a captive market… Many people would like charities to become institutional features instead of charities but then there are other interests who are against such things because then “muh capital”
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by bradlys 4y ago
And people read newspapers back in the day too...
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by bradlys 4y ago
Helicopter parenting wasn’t as intense as it has been in the last 20-30 years.
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by bradlys 4y ago
People are staring at their smartphones because there are less communal spaces than before and less energy put towards having them. Read some Robert Putnam. This was happening well before screens could be blamed.

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