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Can we at least stop posting these dating articles written almost exclusively by straight women? There’s literally nothing new here from these gals - they whine

Can we at least stop posting these dating articles written almost exclusively by straight women? There’s literally nothing new here from these gals - they whine about their own lack of initiation and fear of rejection rather than overcoming it like the overwhelming majority of men have to. These articles offer no nuance or substance compared to the last. The woman here has many options (literally talking to ten different men at once!) but refuses to go forward with any. This is the crux of many of the articles. The girl and all her friends are hoping for the white 6’3” huge cock multi-millionaire intellectual adonis to fall into their lap and beg her to date him. I know a lot of these women IRL and they become spinsters because they keep holding out while they go past 30, 35, and then past 40. Some eventually fall prey to their baby panic and actually just marry the nearest guy to them and pop out a baby within 2 years of meeting the guy. Unfortunately, divorce follows a bit too often after. The funny thing though is that it’s still worse for men. The number of single and never married men compared to then number of single and never married women only gets worse as you age - even though men kill themselves >4x the ratio of women and are born 5-7% more often. No, women are still the victims… always.

dTal 4y ago
>The number of single and never married men compared to then number of single and never married women only gets worse as you age This is an interesting and possibly misleading statistic. Do you know where you heard it?
- bradlys 4y ago
  Census data. Table B12002.
Tozen 4y ago
Good post, and others should not be afraid to be truthful about what is going on. Part of the problem is that when people acknowledge the too obvious reality (particularly or perceived as male) then they get condemned, censored, silenced, shadow banned, banned, doxed, etc... These apps are bringing in tons of money, at the expense of mostly men, to the advantage of mostly women. This is as clear as day. Its only a "problem", in the statistically fewer situations where those with the advantage (primarily women) are inconvenienced by flakes, pranksters, con artists, catfishing, etc... Who of course would be attracted to these types of apps. To include if the person they hook up with from such apps, decides they can do better (for whatever reason), and goes ghost or back to the same app to fish for more. Situations that happen to the average male users (who get massively less matches) of such apps continually and constantly. It has gotten to the point where those already at a huge advantage and taking advantage, feel or believe they are owed a "win". If "he" doesn't meet dream requirements, because somehow they are near perfection (or the delusion of it), then something is finally wrong with the app. Those making money from such apps, will be more than happy to respond with more gimmicks and pretend solutions. But a true issue like "their own lack of initiation and fear of rejection", is a truth that dare not be acknowledged or will be ignored.

dTal 4y ago

>The number of single and never married men compared to then number of single and never married women only gets worse as you age This is an interesting and possibly misleading statistic. Do you know where you heard it?

bradlys 4y ago
Census data. Table B12002.

Tozen 4y ago

Good post, and others should not be afraid to be truthful about what is going on. Part of the problem is that when people acknowledge the too obvious reality (particularly or perceived as male) then they get condemned, censored, silenced, shadow banned, banned, doxed, etc... These apps are bringing in tons of money, at the expense of mostly men, to the advantage of mostly women. This is as clear as day. Its only a "problem", in the statistically fewer situations where those with the advantage (primarily women) are inconvenienced by flakes, pranksters, con artists, catfishing, etc... Who of course would be attracted to these types of apps. To include if the person they hook up with from such apps, decides they can do better (for whatever reason), and goes ghost or back to the same app to fish for more. Situations that happen to the average male users (who get massively less matches) of such apps continually and constantly. It has gotten to the point where those already at a huge advantage and taking advantage, feel or believe they are owed a "win". If "he" doesn't meet dream requirements, because somehow they are near perfection (or the delusion of it), then something is finally wrong with the app. Those making money from such apps, will be more than happy to respond with more gimmicks and pretend solutions. But a true issue like "their own lack of initiation and fear of rejection", is a truth that dare not be acknowledged or will be ignored.