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bingobongo1
6y ago
>I have trouble managing other aspects of life like socializing How so? >hanging out with the family What are you doing when not hanging out with the family? >Hell I even often get blamed for wearing the same types of outfit This i
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bingobongo1
6y ago
It works for anyone who is honest and considerate of others.
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bingobongo1
6y ago
You must find time to relax guilt-free. Look into Shamatha meditation which is single-pointed concentration, it's relaxing and good for your mental state.
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bingobongo1
6y ago
Be genuine and kind instead of engineering situations.
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bingobongo1
6y ago
No doubt. Threats, threatening people, and threatening regimes exist and I'm certainly not advocating for a lack of justice and ethics. It would help if society at various levels became less divisive, that's all. That certainly in
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bingobongo1
6y ago
Very true.
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bingobongo1
6y ago
Compassion is key.
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6y ago
This is so true. I've tried to explain why an organization is the way it is before via cause and effect and some people refuse to believe that there is any sort of subtle force that factors into how organizations turn out. Even if you
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6y ago
Oh good, someone else who is on the right track. Laughing at the manson family reference from the other comment, that's an example of hostile brainwashing by a cult leader, whereas what is being described here is an exploration of self
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6y ago
You're the only one calling anything stupid, I simply pointed out how selfishness arises from a well-known and well-developed perspective on the human mind (and how it interfaces with reality) and pointed to some contemporary discussio
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6y ago
It's not based on faith and has a rich history of academic development and logistical analysis by trained Nalanda scholars of 4th, 5th, and 6th century India. Also there is a rich history of independent development and contemplative ex
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6y ago
I respect your assessment. You may think I'm falling into an idealist's dilemma, however, that single statement is speaking on the nature of emptiness of phenomena and how certain thoughts and emotions arise. Objects do not exist
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bingobongo1
6y ago
It's clear you don't quite get it and I can't force you to understand. I wish you well.
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bingobongo1
6y ago
It's okay to admit that it's difficult to display unwavering compassion with respect to the conventional truth (there are two truths). Instead of insulting you back, have an upvote!
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6y ago
You should read this book: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Innovator%27s_Dilemma You should look for markets where a reconfiguration of leading technology could serve a new market that existing leaders in the space a
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6y ago
As it has been well-known in the east for thousands of years and well preserved by the Tibetan people, the us vs them mentality arises naturally through the nature of consciousness which grasps at the notion of a non-existent self. Through
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6y ago
Hello Eugeleo, I'm no one special, just a person who has finally made some progress on these very issues. I've struggled for quite a while with the same fundamental questions about self as you seem to be struggling with now. >I
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Develop Shamatha, which is a calm abiding mind, meditative equipoise, single pointed concentration. Then engage in analytical meditation, typically known as Vipassanā in the Buddhist tradition, but essentially it involves analytically decom
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I agree and have been there in terms of looming depression preventing you from getting the basic human activities done, but I can't separate that depression from the spirit of my comment either. It was largely related to feeling trappe
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6y ago
>After years of feeling guilty about not wanting to do everything... Has the author asked themselves why they feel guilt about not wanting to do "everything"? Is it possible that the form of discipline being promoted here under