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Be genuine and kind instead of engineering situations.
by bingobongo1 6y ago
Be genuine and kind instead of engineering situations.
- Smaug123 6y agoThis works for people who naturally have good social skills, but as a way of obtaining practice it seems rather unactionable - rather like "Step 1: be attractive; step 2: don't be unattractive".
- bingobongo1 6y agoIt works for anyone who is honest and considerate of others.
- Smaug123 6y agoNo: it may work if you are honest (but know when the truth is harmful) and considerate of others (but are capable of telling when your attention is harmful). Mere good intention is nowhere near enough.