betsydupuis

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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Hey, the admins are being biased in my thread. They allowed a user to hijack the thread accusing me of being a liar. The thread has lost all of the original context and chocked the thread. They've also been extremely biased in the numb
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29816098#29847333 Please refer back here and notice the bias that the thread has taken against me as a sexual assault victim. The thread has been hijacked with gaslighting and victim bla
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
The entire have become a tirade that calls into question whether I was assaulted or not. The entire thread has hijacked with someone accusing me of still wanted to be with someone that tried to get me to kill myself and sexually assaulted m
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Testimonial hearsay, such as depositions to the police, is evidence. You have no idea what you are talking about. Stop mansplaining
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
The news generally covers criminal arrests trials, which this trial has not been dropped and is actively in progress.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
It takes a long time to recover from abuse and assault.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
It’s awful. The worst part is the ugly truth of how easy it is to get away with violence against women.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Alex sold me the same story of “working on love” when he wanted to control me. This is not an uncommon theme amongst abusers. Alex often spoke of this pure unattainable love that we had, but claimed it never existed once he realized he woul
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
2 years ago.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
That therapist disappointed me in how they handled the situation, but I did not lie and genuinely made an effort. And that was not a therapeutic relationship – I asked him to mediate Alex understanding the harm he had done to me. And this w
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
There's literally another random person I've never even talked to on this thread saying that he had troubling relationships. I've spoken to many people that say the same thing.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Yeah, Alex promised me a lot of stuff. A big house, that I repeatedly said I didn't want, kids, connections. A lot of that same stuff got turned into threats eventually.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Alex requested the sex. He specifically reached out to ask me to have sex with him.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Alex assaulted me.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
If you are even really her... Why did you accuse him of strangling you again on Twitter on October 14, 2021 a full 52 days after the incident then? https://drive.google.com/file/d/1A4SUnQG9_f8JE5glOq9bA2DTOcb...
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
That's what I would have expected, but they did not do that to my knowledge.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Reach out on Keybase if you can. I'd like to know more.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
To say the implication is he killed her is misleading, but does show the severity of the crime that she could have died.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
No, it's a danger because a person that commits violence against women is engaging in misogynistic behavior and can't be trusted to treat female subordinates and colleagues fairly. Furthermore, Alex was reported to Github HR by mu
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
A deposition to the police is not hearsay, it's evidence. If you're going to play armchair lawyer, get the facts straight.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
The third person was the police officer that was called to the scene and took a statement from the victim. That's how police reports are written.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
Adding another public record verifying that the police report. https://www.austintexas.gov/police/reports/search2.cfm?choic...
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
When I spoke to Miguel, he said both Alex and Nat were "assholes when they were drunk." He also said that Nat had "Hurt him deeply" and they don't talk much anymore. From what I can tell Miguel stayed friends with A
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
It's literally a 3rd degree felony in the state of Texas. Texas Penal Code Sec. 38.05 Hindering Apprehension or Prosecution (a) A person commits an offense if, with intent to hinder the arrest, prosecution, conviction, or punishment of
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
McClane et al [6] report that 50% of victims surviving strangulation had no visible neck signs and 35% had minor injuries. ... https://www.researchgate.net/publication/10695143_Strangulat...
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
I wish it wasn't true. Thank you for the apology.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
"employees may be eligible for time off work or other accommodation to manage medical issues and other negative consequences arising from domestic violence." It doesn't specify the time off and accommodations are just for vic
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
This assault charge has nothing to do with me. Me reporting the facts doesn't change that.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
His parents were Christians before converting to Hare Krishna. Alex described it as a cult.
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by betsydupuis 5y ago
I got this directly from the interim head of HR at Github, Jeanine Abramson via email. If it's not what it says, then I've been misled by leadership at Github.

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