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_rpxe
5y ago
That's really bad advice for people who are naturally very fragile, have social anxiety or can't deal with confrontation. Unless they start dealing with the feeling of discomfort, they will either suffer their entire life or just
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_rpxe
5y ago
What you're describing is also known as staying in your comfort zone, which can be devastating. You should be mindful of your feelings and examine their origins, yes. But I wouldn't recommend being driven by them.