DevToRecruiter

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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
You can save yourself a lot of time and possibly attract the right type of candidate By posting the salary (not just a range) including all benefits as well as the type of work they’ll be responsible for (not just what skills you expect the
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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't know what your position is but I may be able to help you with the "finding a new job" part of your anxiety. Please feel free to reach out to me on twitter @devetorecruite
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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
this is really helpful. thank you
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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
I know you're right but just reading what wrote makes me feel queasy. Things ended so abruptly im not sure that we dont still love each other. There's a good chance that I'm fooling myself though. ughh
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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
I feel the same way. In my case I have no love interest so I can at least pretend that that will help (it won’t). If you’re like me then it’s a near certainty that none of the suggestions here will help. I don’t have anything to offer. Im s
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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
Thanks, that what it feels like to me. I’ve survived over the last few years by leaning into the hatred for what she’s done to our family. Now that seems to have subsided and I’m left with the pain of knowing we will never be a family again
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by DevToRecruiter 4y ago
It was very abrupt. Our marriage was difficult but I always believed we could figure it out. I think we both felt exactly the same way about each other at the end. She filed for divorce.
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Ask HN: How does one move on after a divorce?
9 points by DevToRecruiter 4y ago|18 comments
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Roll the Dice by Charles Bukowski(youtube.com)
2 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|0 comments
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There's a Tsunami Alert in Japan(apnews.com)
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
I'd love to chat. Looking forward!
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
I really appreciate your comment. I agree about "how to win friends and influence people". It feels manipulative as hell. Can you expand a little on how to actively listen better? I feel like when I try this, the conversation beco
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
I do this! There's something about the way he talks that gives me perspective. Hims and Bukowski when I'm feeling particularly dark. The thing is I find myself back to where I started shortly after listening. Maybe thats the point
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
I think as a child my mom often asked me if I had friends at school in this worried tone. I suppose I made a decision to hide parts of myself in order to have friends. And it worked for years, up until I got married and realized I've b
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
This is pretty spot on. I grew up in an orthodox religious home where a sense of community was a given. I'm no longer part of that community and I feel it. Regarding not trusting women, I think I don't trust because I don't u
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
You're right. I think you just pointed out a deep belief I currently hold regarding connecting with other people. I don't have it right. When I used to have friends in my late 20's, I didn't need a reason to hang. I don&
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
Thats a great point! I suppose I'm trying to avoid feeling like a pos for potentially feeling like I wasted my time if the social interaction didn't alleviate my loneliness. So i do have unhealthy expectations that need to be exam
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
Thanks for the detailed response and the kind offer. I appreciate this advice especially the less obvious piece. The typical (hobbies, hang our in public places etc.) advice just haste historically worked for me however throwing myself into
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
Thanks for the kind words. The resistance I'm up against is that I feel like I'm just using people to alleviate the loneliness. It feels manipulative and inauthentic. Like I'm putting on a show in order to attract companionsh
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
When I get lonely, I talk myself into making decisions that are not smart. I know I'm making the decision irrationally but I feel helpless to do anything about it. It's like I watch myself make the horrible decision, knowing it s
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Ask HN: I'm So Lonely
314 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|243 comments
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Today's Trump Interview(youtube.com)
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
I'm a recruiter that does precisely this. I don't collect resumes. I view myself as a talent agent for people in tech. A majority of the candidates I work with come from friends/colleagues whom I've worked with in the pa
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Ask HN: Contract Automation Software
1 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|1 comments
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Ask HN: What's the best affordable mattress on Amazon?
3 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|1 comments
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
This advice is too generic to be useful. There are two types of recruiters. Relationship based recruiters and “numbers game” recruiters. As a recruiter that works primarily with programmers I can usually tell within moments of meeting anoth
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by DevToRecruiter 5y ago
Wow! PowerThesaurus is a great resource. Thank you Also, yeah urban dictionary is a treasure
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Ask HN: What's your favorite online dictionary?
2 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|2 comments
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Where Does Gravity Stop?(uu.edu)
3 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|1 comments
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U.S. Supreme Court blocks Biden vaccine-or-test policy for large businesses(reuters.com)
14 points by DevToRecruiter 5y ago|0 comments

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