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Gaslighting in its original sense is a continued process of abuse that leads to a person doubting their own perception, typically with a long term PTSD as consequence. What we are discussing here are possible strategies to get somebody to c
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Zed?
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It’s not either-or. You can tell people No and be empathetic to their reasons at the same time. Understanding doesn’t mean agreement or acceptance. It also doesn’t mean you excuse their behavior, or allow it to continue. Empathy doesn’t mea
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People react differently to feedback without necessarily bad intentions. Not everyone is ready to instantly admit mistakes. Empathy goes a long way.
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To me he sounds inexperienced/naive and a little scared (and thus “defensive”) but well-intentioned. His response makes me believe that he didn’t do it for fame, to deceive, or other selfish reasons.
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Hint: You can replace “gay” in the second bullet point with any adjective of your liking, and it still works!
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Anyone on the path potentially learns something about your system and your software use. Your IP during connection exposes your rough location. Crash logs rarely are completely anonymized so both together can additionally serve as a way to
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And yet it is an expectation, a wishful fantasy, that will lead to endless loops of disappointment unless we let go of it, face reality, and deal with it in other more productive ways. Not all people will always act “civilized”.
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monopoly
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I had a 5 digit one. Unless my mind is playing tricks on me.
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Chen, H., & Tan, D. (2019). Cesarean section or natural childbirth? Cesarean birth may damage your health. Frontiers in Psychology, 10, Article 351. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.00351 Orovou, E., Antoniou, E.
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Huh? My understanding is that they have religion data only for catholics/protestants, and only on local level, not in a central database. Which yes that should be killed too but no other faith is recorded, since they only collect taxes
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The idea as far as I understand it is that it’s the point exactly to sit with and process whatever comes up in your mind when you don’t distract yourself. The more often you do it, the more present you become, and the more ability you devel
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> The process would be safer (and less painful) if the path mimicked a caesarean section, with the baby exiting through the navel. Prenatal development research posits that natural birth is a required “early training experience” and that
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Side note: FaceID only unlocks if you actually look at the screen . If you’re careful to avoid that, one would have to physically force your eyes to do that without also covering other necessary areas of your face. A kid and I sometimes en
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I don’t see the point in buying a Kindle if you plan to jailbreak it anyway. Hardware wise, a wide range of better alternatives are available.
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You may enjoy the movie “Sovereign”.
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My phone: my private space. Anything in the browser: not my private space. I want exactly that: the OS to translate between that boundary with a sane default. It’s unavoidable to have cases where this is inconvenient or irritating. I don’t
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Agreed. It’s the good old “A little beating never hurt anyone. It certainly didn’t break me when my parents did it!” speech.
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I seriously doubt that’s the case. Someone will take offense in your killing, and come back for you and your tribe. And so round and round it goes.
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> Sending you an email after you signed up is "unethical"? Unless I asked for it, it is both unethical and will turn me as potential customer away, and it is illegal (GDPR).
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I would believe there is a nontrivial amount of books by the same author published in the same year with the same title either in different formats, different languages, and/or by different publishers.
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Nice! For my taste you could remove the TAP OR PRESS bar after some time, maybe after score 3 or so including restarts.
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It’s obviously the unguided section where you sit with whatever emotions the disruption brings up for you!
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There is also the theory that it serves as a reenactment of one’s own abuse. Trying to find peace and return to safety by replaying the scene, this time not as helpless victim but perpetrator: in control. Victims of sexual abuse thus often
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„Rewrite in a style appealing to Hacker News users critical of AI slop“.
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Like in most cases that involve finance, I appreciate Matt Levines summary and comments in his excellent and ads free Money Stuff newsletter. Highly recommended! I wish there were more newsletters like his. In fact, it’s one of the few news
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> some regime that penalizes inappropiate use of alarms Legally, use of horns in traffic is restricted, and abuse can be punished. Doesn’t keep people from honking all the time.
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> people have said a lot of stuff about me too... but i just dont care. Hurt people hurt people. You sure seem to have bottled up your own pain with anger weakly disguised as eagerness. I hope you eventually realize you cannot gain the l
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Can you cite the relevant passages from the DMCA that support this argument? I have trouble bringing the two together.

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