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   by 37824912238 1y ago

   > You actually think it's justified... Well, I agree it's morally questionable, but it's all a big spectrum. I'm not really trying to say what is or isn't "justified" in the abstract. Both of these peop
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   by 37824912238 1y ago

   > I'm not sure if you can't see the power imbalance :) Did you read the part of my comment where I said, "Yes, there's a power imbalance..." ? > as if consent were ever possible To say that she could not conse
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   by 37824912238 1y ago

   Where exactly is the "sexual exploitation" part? He didn't blackmail her, he didn't force her, he didn't offer her favors/status in return for sex. She was not a child, she made her decisions, she regretted th
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   by 37824912238 1y ago

   The thing is, /both people are telling the truth!/ If you read their accounts, they're not especially contradictory. It's not as if she's saying, "he raped me" and he's saying, "no I didn'