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Are porn algorithms feeding a generation of paedophiles – or creating one?

43 points by sandebert 2y ago

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Spivak 2y ago
Betteridge's Law is strong with this one. The lede is buried at after all the sob stories about guys who discovered they were pedophiles because recommendation algorithms are really good as showing you what you want to see. This is all just pretext to the UK government's massive privacy overreach and censorship. > Along with other countries, the UK is bringing in tighter controls on the porn industry. Porn sites will be required to have age verification processes in place by July to stop children viewing their content, a process that will be monitored by Ofcom under the new Online Safety Act (OSA). But the OSA does not ban or control certain common practices in porn, such as strangulation, sexual fetishisation of incest or the abuse of children acted by adults. The government argues depiction of sexual strangulation is banned but a recent in-depth review of porn by Baroness Bertin, a Conservative peer, warned it is not, in reality, covered by case law. She called for tighter regulation of “legal but harmful pornography like choking, violent and degrading acts … even content that could encourage child sexual abuse”. While headlines picked out the call to ban strangulation, Bertin also demanded clearer rules around “incest, step-incest and ‘teen’ porn”. I think the people pushing these moral purity bills need a wake-up call about what women find hot. Because this worldview makes no sense once you know that these "violent and degrading acts" are extremely common fetishes among women who play the part of the "victim." It's not men who are reading gothic horror where incest one of the tamer depictions. The problem in the real world is that, despite the public perception otherwise, guys are generally deeply uncomfortable playing out the other side of these kinds of fantasies.
- tonyedgecombe 2y ago
  > Because this worldview makes no sense once you know that these "violent and degrading acts" are extremely common fetishes among women who play the part of the "victim." I’d like to see some evidence for that because it sounds like a projection to me.
  - Viliam1234 2y ago
    Here is some data: https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-and-popularity-v3 https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-and-popularity... I haven't looked at it closely, so I have no idea whether it supports or opposes the hypothesis. Just wanted to give you some data.
    - speff 2y ago
      "being submissive, sexual frustration, light bondage, spanking, choking" All clustered at the top in the feminine-preferred category.
    - tonyedgecombe 2y ago
      The author of that post is surveying their own audience. You can take the results with a pinch of salt.
      - UncleEntity 2y ago
        > You can take the results with a pinch of salt. That's a sub-genre I have yet to hear about, do tell more. Seriously, though, the 'porn addict turned sexual predator' questionnaire in TFA was from anonymous people on the dark webs. Are they also salt-fetishists?
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  - sudahtigabulan 2y ago
    Find your local BDSM community, and you'll have it. Maybe. If you're a good boy.
    - tonyedgecombe 2y ago
      That doesn’t make it “extremely common”.
      - 2y ago
- grvdrm 2y ago
  +1 with the other reply to your comment. I don't as an anecdote disagree with some of what you said. There are many things happening in private that you don't hear about in public. Friends aren't telling friends things. And I think it's important that people feel more comfortable/open/vulnerable with people they know rather than projecting what they want people to think. But I'm a guy and don't claim that I know what women want! Perhaps you're a woman and thus your reply is rooted in lots of experience/evidence?
  - throwanem 2y ago
    This strikes me as invidious, an effort to silence. Perhaps I misjudge, so I'll respond in good faith: your prior interlocutor attributes to women what is in fact a common trait of people who've previously been abused. The misattribution is common; women more often come in for sexual abuse on the one hand, and on the other benefit from much more space in the social narrative to exist as survivors thereof. Men who have been similarly abused tend to respond differently, for that and other reasons.
    - grvdrm 2y ago
      I'll respond in good faith too: note that I said "anecdote" - maybe I should have said something like "exclusively personal experience" I thought the OP (in comments) was quite authoritative and confident but without much evidence/support for making such a statement.
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      - throwanem 2y ago
        Don't you think that's rather bold? - to call someone out on an unsupported assertion, in the very same breath as you say "and no it isn't, probably!"
  - Spivak 2y ago
    Yes, I'm a woman posting about my own experience as well as the experiences of my female friends who I could in no way describe as skewing particularly sexually deviant. They all pretty much consider themselves "vanilla" and yet this article would have you believe that they're deeply depraved for wanting to be "taken," choked, dominated, or receive some light degradation. These things are so normal that they're not even considered to separate from sex, they're just what you happen to be into— on the level of preferring specific positions.
- quickthrowman 2y ago
  > I think the people pushing these moral purity bills need a wake-up call about what women find hot. Because this worldview makes no sense once you know that these "violent and degrading acts" are extremely common fetishes among women who play the part of the "victim." Agreed, every single woman I’ve slept with has expressed a desire to either be restrained, submissive, choked or spanked, and a few have expressed desires for nonconsensual sex fantasies. It’s exceedingly common.
  - matsemann 2y ago
    all([]) == True
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    - quickthrowman 2y ago
      I’m not saying 100% of women are into it, just that 100% of the partners I’ve selected have been into it. I choose partners that are positive and open about sex so your experiences may be vastly different. I’ve never met someone on a ‘kink’ website, just your regular methods of finding a partner.
    - lucyjojo 2y ago
      he's right... it's very, very common. and along multiple generations (well at least current 20 to 50s) and multiple cultures.
- api 2y ago
  I'm not saying you're implying this, but I need to be the boring hall monitor to point out that while consensual submissive fantasies are extremely common there is none -- zero -- overlap with actual non-consensual sexual assault which I'd venture to say nobody (to within a rounding error of zero) finds appealing. It's kind of like the difference between watching a scary movie or visiting a haunted house attraction vs. actually being chased by a brutal crazed murderer.
  - Spivak 2y ago
    I don't disagree which is why playing out a rape fantasy is generally called "consenting non-consent." There are rules, boundaries, safe words, lots of aftercare, just generally good communication all around is a necessary condition. Haunted House is actually such a good way of explaining it. I'm stealing that!
belorn 2y ago
They are doing neither, and the article itself undermines its premise later when the "serious research" is being quoted. As it cites, most offender get exposed during early teens, back when there were no porn algorithms. However, the rate of child sexual abuse has steadily decreased since the 1990s, down by almost 50%. If the hypothesis of the article was correct then the rate of child sexual abuse should increase, not decrease. Other research studies, have looked at the rate of pedophilia in the general population, and the conclusions seems to be a fairly static rate of around 2% (like "Prevalence, situation, and perspectives of treatment" from 2020). However since the rate of child sexual abuse has decreased, such studies mostly rely on doing survey and those has for obvious reasons a major problem of sampling and accuracy. A common theme in the research, just from a very quick look, is that the researcher themselves cite that the is a huge lack of research in this area. They can see the trend, and see the numbers, but there is little to real understanding to what is behind the numbers. We currently has as good chance to blame the Catholic Church as to blame pornhub, and articles like this one are not helping the slightest. At best it just spreading fear in order to generate engagement, and at worst they are abusing their readers by pushing propaganda in order to sway popular opinion about oppressive laws.
- api 2y ago
  > the rate of child sexual abuse has steadily decreased since the 1990s, down by almost 50%. That's kind of remarkable if true, because the openness of both individuals and institutions to taking reports of it seriously has increased. Before all our modern awareness of stuff like "consent" a lot of reports were dismissed, especially if the pedophile was someone trusted in the community and especially if they came from women. Boys often didn't report at all out of shame. Usually when there's an increase in awareness you see a phantom increase due to reporting, as has happened with things like rates of homosexuality or with diagnostic categories like autism and ADD/ADHD. Of course maybe there's less of it today because abusers are getting caught more often. That's possible too. Edit: this wouldn't surprise me at all given that there appears to be zero relationship between public panics about something and its actual incidence. Street crime, for example, was orders of magnitude worse in the early 1990s vs. today but people were less panicked about it. Public panics are media driven.
viraptor 2y ago
It's one thing when people actually seek it out. But the idea that someone may get charged for a video they didn't realise contains underage people is chilling. I know one tiny woman who in her 30s still could pass for a highschooler and will probably be carded for many years to come. On the other hand I went to high school with a couple of people who could pass for 25+ year olds easily. Without personally checking someone's id, you just can't know for sure. So even if you'd want to avoid illegal material - how sure are you you're safe?
- brookst 2y ago
  All commercially produced porn is fastidious about record keeping. Even to the extent that someone underage used a convincing fake ID, relying on that infra would be a pretty strong defense. Truly amateur, unknown source, “teen” content is scary as hell.
  - pseudalopex 2y ago
    > Even to the extent that someone underage used a convincing fake ID, relying on that infra would be a pretty strong defense. Fake ID is irrelevant in many jurisdictions.
    - brookst 2y ago
      It’s moot because the consumer never sees these IDs. But you can’t with a straight face say there is as much potential liability for someone watching “teen” porn from a legit company that includes 2257 statements as there is from watching torrented, unsourced, amateur “teen” content. It’s a huge difference in intent.
Hizonner 2y ago
I'm going with "no".
jchw 2y ago
I hate how when an article about how science has discredited the concept of porn addiction wound up getting bounced off the HN frontpage within minutes of appearing on it, then flagged and deaded: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43587448 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43587448 And yet, this absurd sensationalist dreck will probably stay up here for longer.
- ejang0 2y ago
  Could you say more about this? This link isn't that helpful since the main content was removed.
  - jchw 2y ago
    The link went to here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201808/science-stopped-believing-in-porn-addiction-you-should-too https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/2018...
- dandanua 2y ago
  Any addiction is bad, including porn. Why normalise it? Addictions can be greatly advanced by an algorithm, you can't deny that either. Are porn sites trying to advance porn addiction in their users? Well, the number of views is their money, so it's reasonable to assume they are. I could agree with only one thing, that porn addiction is not the worst one out there, but blamed the most. For some reason, it's ok for mobile games to make gambling addicts from kids, but no one seems to care about that.
  - jchw 2y ago
    I don't really believe porn addiction ever really was normalized. The layperson definition of "addiction" is just something that someone is habitually occupied with. The medical definition of "addiction" is more like something that you have a serious dependence to, to the point where it impacts your life and it would cause distress to be without it. And don't get me wrong, I am not saying that there are not people with a sex or porn addiction, but I think it is woefully uncommon. I'm pretty sure if you take the average person that the Internet classifies as a "gooner" or "porn addict" and took away all of their porn, they would be completely fine. It's the same for those stupid mobile games, too. They get the vast majority of their money from a small minority of people, and even then, not all of those whales are addicted either, some of them are just well off enough and choose to spend their money on frivolous things, no different than people with thousands of vinyl figures (and although I think they have a bad taste in figures, I doubt most of them have a serious problem.) What I do think was normalized in the late 90s and early 2000s was extrarordinary crudeness and overt sexuality, but I don't think there was really a point at which people were normalizing getting psychologically dependent on pornography. It'd be kind of hard to normalize that since it's more about the specific person than it is the thing they're dependent on. This also does not mean that social media or algorithms aren't fucking with our brains in other ways. And I'm going to be honest, I have absolutely no idea what the porn algorithms are or what they're doing. I don't use Pornhub or sites like Pornhub (yes, I know, "sure you don't", but I'm serious.) I do use YouTube constantly, and I don't think I'm addicted to YouTube. I'm not addicted to Technology Connections or Practical Engineering. I'm sure the YouTube recommendation algorithm is fucking with my brain, but I wouldn't call anything it's doing an addiction. I'm also sure this is true for a majority of TikTok users, even though it's a ton more... well, what us laypeople would call "addicting".
MichaelRo 2y ago
Well I don't know about the "porn algorithms", people are free to choose what they want. So if they continuously choose from the "teen" category, I'm guessing some sort of deviation must be at play. Like if you check the teen category on https://www.pornpics.com/ https://www.pornpics.com/ , many of the girls there seem awfully young with some, practically kids. For me the feeling is too uncomfortable to watch those. But I did notice a curious phenomenon, now that I'm approaching 50s. There were all kind of movies I watched as a kid, teenager or young adult and I completely ignored the beauty of the actresses in them, they were at best associated with "mom" if not "granny". But now, that their age in the movie is 10-20 years below my current age, suddenly I discover that they're pretty good looking. Like Elaine from Seinfeld for instance :) I heard somewhere this saying and I'm afraid it's true: "When a man is in his 20s, he finds beautiful maybe 5-10% of the women of his age. When they're in their 40s, they find about half the 20-somethings beautiful. When they reach 80s, they find all of the young women beautiful." :)
- lostmsu 2y ago
  Personal anecdata: while approaching 40, I wouldn't say anywhere near half of 20 somethings are beautiful.
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dtgm92 2y ago
Not even porn algos, regular algos provide a feast for those people. Tiktok, previously musically, youtube, it is all filled with questionable underage content. The worst part though is that if you are into such things, it recommends more to you, and other similar users history and activity gets recommended to you, thus distributing the content. It is no different from how these algos learn you like mountain biking or gardening.

43 points by sandebert 2y ago

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Betteridge's Law is strong with this one. The lede is buried at after all the sob stories about guys who discovered they were pedophiles because recommendation algorithms are really good as showing you what you want to see. This is all just pretext to the UK government's massive privacy overreach and censorship. > Along with other countries, the UK is bringing in tighter controls on the porn industry. Porn sites will be required to have age verification processes in place by July to stop children viewing their content, a process that will be monitored by Ofcom under the new Online Safety Act (OSA). But the OSA does not ban or control certain common practices in porn, such as strangulation, sexual fetishisation of incest or the abuse of children acted by adults. The government argues depiction of sexual strangulation is banned but a recent in-depth review of porn by Baroness Bertin, a Conservative peer, warned it is not, in reality, covered by case law. She called for tighter regulation of “legal but harmful pornography like choking, violent and degrading acts … even content that could encourage child sexual abuse”. While headlines picked out the call to ban strangulation, Bertin also demanded clearer rules around “incest, step-incest and ‘teen’ porn”. I think the people pushing these moral purity bills need a wake-up call about what women find hot. Because this worldview makes no sense once you know that these "violent and degrading acts" are extremely common fetishes among women who play the part of the "victim." It's not men who are reading gothic horror where incest one of the tamer depictions. The problem in the real world is that, despite the public perception otherwise, guys are generally deeply uncomfortable playing out the other side of these kinds of fantasies.

tonyedgecombe 2y ago
> Because this worldview makes no sense once you know that these "violent and degrading acts" are extremely common fetishes among women who play the part of the "victim." I’d like to see some evidence for that because it sounds like a projection to me.
- Viliam1234 2y ago
  Here is some data: https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-and-popularity-v3 https://aella.substack.com/p/fetish-tabooness-and-popularity... I haven't looked at it closely, so I have no idea whether it supports or opposes the hypothesis. Just wanted to give you some data.
  - speff 2y ago
    "being submissive, sexual frustration, light bondage, spanking, choking" All clustered at the top in the feminine-preferred category.
  - tonyedgecombe 2y ago
    The author of that post is surveying their own audience. You can take the results with a pinch of salt.
    - UncleEntity 2y ago
      > You can take the results with a pinch of salt. That's a sub-genre I have yet to hear about, do tell more. Seriously, though, the 'porn addict turned sexual predator' questionnaire in TFA was from anonymous people on the dark webs. Are they also salt-fetishists?
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- sudahtigabulan 2y ago
  Find your local BDSM community, and you'll have it. Maybe. If you're a good boy.
  - tonyedgecombe 2y ago
    That doesn’t make it “extremely common”.
    - 2y ago
grvdrm 2y ago
+1 with the other reply to your comment. I don't as an anecdote disagree with some of what you said. There are many things happening in private that you don't hear about in public. Friends aren't telling friends things. And I think it's important that people feel more comfortable/open/vulnerable with people they know rather than projecting what they want people to think. But I'm a guy and don't claim that I know what women want! Perhaps you're a woman and thus your reply is rooted in lots of experience/evidence?
- throwanem 2y ago
  This strikes me as invidious, an effort to silence. Perhaps I misjudge, so I'll respond in good faith: your prior interlocutor attributes to women what is in fact a common trait of people who've previously been abused. The misattribution is common; women more often come in for sexual abuse on the one hand, and on the other benefit from much more space in the social narrative to exist as survivors thereof. Men who have been similarly abused tend to respond differently, for that and other reasons.
  - grvdrm 2y ago
    I'll respond in good faith too: note that I said "anecdote" - maybe I should have said something like "exclusively personal experience" I thought the OP (in comments) was quite authoritative and confident but without much evidence/support for making such a statement.
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    - throwanem 2y ago
      Don't you think that's rather bold? - to call someone out on an unsupported assertion, in the very same breath as you say "and no it isn't, probably!"
- Spivak 2y ago
  Yes, I'm a woman posting about my own experience as well as the experiences of my female friends who I could in no way describe as skewing particularly sexually deviant. They all pretty much consider themselves "vanilla" and yet this article would have you believe that they're deeply depraved for wanting to be "taken," choked, dominated, or receive some light degradation. These things are so normal that they're not even considered to separate from sex, they're just what you happen to be into— on the level of preferring specific positions.
quickthrowman 2y ago
> I think the people pushing these moral purity bills need a wake-up call about what women find hot. Because this worldview makes no sense once you know that these "violent and degrading acts" are extremely common fetishes among women who play the part of the "victim." Agreed, every single woman I’ve slept with has expressed a desire to either be restrained, submissive, choked or spanked, and a few have expressed desires for nonconsensual sex fantasies. It’s exceedingly common.
- matsemann 2y ago
  all([]) == True
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  - quickthrowman 2y ago
    I’m not saying 100% of women are into it, just that 100% of the partners I’ve selected have been into it. I choose partners that are positive and open about sex so your experiences may be vastly different. I’ve never met someone on a ‘kink’ website, just your regular methods of finding a partner.
  - lucyjojo 2y ago
    he's right... it's very, very common. and along multiple generations (well at least current 20 to 50s) and multiple cultures.
api 2y ago
I'm not saying you're implying this, but I need to be the boring hall monitor to point out that while consensual submissive fantasies are extremely common there is none -- zero -- overlap with actual non-consensual sexual assault which I'd venture to say nobody (to within a rounding error of zero) finds appealing. It's kind of like the difference between watching a scary movie or visiting a haunted house attraction vs. actually being chased by a brutal crazed murderer.
- Spivak 2y ago
  I don't disagree which is why playing out a rape fantasy is generally called "consenting non-consent." There are rules, boundaries, safe words, lots of aftercare, just generally good communication all around is a necessary condition. Haunted House is actually such a good way of explaining it. I'm stealing that!

belorn 2y ago

They are doing neither, and the article itself undermines its premise later when the "serious research" is being quoted. As it cites, most offender get exposed during early teens, back when there were no porn algorithms. However, the rate of child sexual abuse has steadily decreased since the 1990s, down by almost 50%. If the hypothesis of the article was correct then the rate of child sexual abuse should increase, not decrease. Other research studies, have looked at the rate of pedophilia in the general population, and the conclusions seems to be a fairly static rate of around 2% (like "Prevalence, situation, and perspectives of treatment" from 2020). However since the rate of child sexual abuse has decreased, such studies mostly rely on doing survey and those has for obvious reasons a major problem of sampling and accuracy. A common theme in the research, just from a very quick look, is that the researcher themselves cite that the is a huge lack of research in this area. They can see the trend, and see the numbers, but there is little to real understanding to what is behind the numbers. We currently has as good chance to blame the Catholic Church as to blame pornhub, and articles like this one are not helping the slightest. At best it just spreading fear in order to generate engagement, and at worst they are abusing their readers by pushing propaganda in order to sway popular opinion about oppressive laws.

api 2y ago
> the rate of child sexual abuse has steadily decreased since the 1990s, down by almost 50%. That's kind of remarkable if true, because the openness of both individuals and institutions to taking reports of it seriously has increased. Before all our modern awareness of stuff like "consent" a lot of reports were dismissed, especially if the pedophile was someone trusted in the community and especially if they came from women. Boys often didn't report at all out of shame. Usually when there's an increase in awareness you see a phantom increase due to reporting, as has happened with things like rates of homosexuality or with diagnostic categories like autism and ADD/ADHD. Of course maybe there's less of it today because abusers are getting caught more often. That's possible too. Edit: this wouldn't surprise me at all given that there appears to be zero relationship between public panics about something and its actual incidence. Street crime, for example, was orders of magnitude worse in the early 1990s vs. today but people were less panicked about it. Public panics are media driven.

viraptor 2y ago

It's one thing when people actually seek it out. But the idea that someone may get charged for a video they didn't realise contains underage people is chilling. I know one tiny woman who in her 30s still could pass for a highschooler and will probably be carded for many years to come. On the other hand I went to high school with a couple of people who could pass for 25+ year olds easily. Without personally checking someone's id, you just can't know for sure. So even if you'd want to avoid illegal material - how sure are you you're safe?

brookst 2y ago
All commercially produced porn is fastidious about record keeping. Even to the extent that someone underage used a convincing fake ID, relying on that infra would be a pretty strong defense. Truly amateur, unknown source, “teen” content is scary as hell.
- pseudalopex 2y ago
  > Even to the extent that someone underage used a convincing fake ID, relying on that infra would be a pretty strong defense. Fake ID is irrelevant in many jurisdictions.
  - brookst 2y ago
    It’s moot because the consumer never sees these IDs. But you can’t with a straight face say there is as much potential liability for someone watching “teen” porn from a legit company that includes 2257 statements as there is from watching torrented, unsourced, amateur “teen” content. It’s a huge difference in intent.

Hizonner 2y ago

I'm going with "no".

jchw 2y ago

I hate how when an article about how science has discredited the concept of porn addiction wound up getting bounced off the HN frontpage within minutes of appearing on it, then flagged and deaded: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43587448 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43587448 And yet, this absurd sensationalist dreck will probably stay up here for longer.

ejang0 2y ago
Could you say more about this? This link isn't that helpful since the main content was removed.
- jchw 2y ago
  The link went to here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201808/science-stopped-believing-in-porn-addiction-you-should-too https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/2018...
dandanua 2y ago
Any addiction is bad, including porn. Why normalise it? Addictions can be greatly advanced by an algorithm, you can't deny that either. Are porn sites trying to advance porn addiction in their users? Well, the number of views is their money, so it's reasonable to assume they are. I could agree with only one thing, that porn addiction is not the worst one out there, but blamed the most. For some reason, it's ok for mobile games to make gambling addicts from kids, but no one seems to care about that.
- jchw 2y ago
  I don't really believe porn addiction ever really was normalized. The layperson definition of "addiction" is just something that someone is habitually occupied with. The medical definition of "addiction" is more like something that you have a serious dependence to, to the point where it impacts your life and it would cause distress to be without it. And don't get me wrong, I am not saying that there are not people with a sex or porn addiction, but I think it is woefully uncommon. I'm pretty sure if you take the average person that the Internet classifies as a "gooner" or "porn addict" and took away all of their porn, they would be completely fine. It's the same for those stupid mobile games, too. They get the vast majority of their money from a small minority of people, and even then, not all of those whales are addicted either, some of them are just well off enough and choose to spend their money on frivolous things, no different than people with thousands of vinyl figures (and although I think they have a bad taste in figures, I doubt most of them have a serious problem.) What I do think was normalized in the late 90s and early 2000s was extrarordinary crudeness and overt sexuality, but I don't think there was really a point at which people were normalizing getting psychologically dependent on pornography. It'd be kind of hard to normalize that since it's more about the specific person than it is the thing they're dependent on. This also does not mean that social media or algorithms aren't fucking with our brains in other ways. And I'm going to be honest, I have absolutely no idea what the porn algorithms are or what they're doing. I don't use Pornhub or sites like Pornhub (yes, I know, "sure you don't", but I'm serious.) I do use YouTube constantly, and I don't think I'm addicted to YouTube. I'm not addicted to Technology Connections or Practical Engineering. I'm sure the YouTube recommendation algorithm is fucking with my brain, but I wouldn't call anything it's doing an addiction. I'm also sure this is true for a majority of TikTok users, even though it's a ton more... well, what us laypeople would call "addicting".

MichaelRo 2y ago

Well I don't know about the "porn algorithms", people are free to choose what they want. So if they continuously choose from the "teen" category, I'm guessing some sort of deviation must be at play. Like if you check the teen category on https://www.pornpics.com/ https://www.pornpics.com/ , many of the girls there seem awfully young with some, practically kids. For me the feeling is too uncomfortable to watch those. But I did notice a curious phenomenon, now that I'm approaching 50s. There were all kind of movies I watched as a kid, teenager or young adult and I completely ignored the beauty of the actresses in them, they were at best associated with "mom" if not "granny". But now, that their age in the movie is 10-20 years below my current age, suddenly I discover that they're pretty good looking. Like Elaine from Seinfeld for instance :) I heard somewhere this saying and I'm afraid it's true: "When a man is in his 20s, he finds beautiful maybe 5-10% of the women of his age. When they're in their 40s, they find about half the 20-somethings beautiful. When they reach 80s, they find all of the young women beautiful." :)

lostmsu 2y ago
Personal anecdata: while approaching 40, I wouldn't say anywhere near half of 20 somethings are beautiful.

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dtgm92 2y ago

Not even porn algos, regular algos provide a feast for those people. Tiktok, previously musically, youtube, it is all filled with questionable underage content. The worst part though is that if you are into such things, it recommends more to you, and other similar users history and activity gets recommended to you, thus distributing the content. It is no different from how these algos learn you like mountain biking or gardening.