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I just had my first child at age 40 and of course my experience is similar to yours. I can't help but wonder if delaying (or eschewing) having children is contr
by dionidium 5y ago
I just had my first child at age 40 and of course my experience is similar to yours. I can't help but wonder if delaying (or eschewing) having children is contributing to what seems to be a broadening generational gap. I'm learning lessons in early middle-age that previous generations learned in their early twenties. I could have used some of this new empathy I'm feeling for my parents and their generation 15-20 years ago.
- seanmcdirmid 5y agoSame boat, same feeling. But I also think there are mistakes we aren’t making, a maturity that will lead to perhaps enhanced outcomes for our kids even if not for us.
- nradov 5y agoWhich mistakes?
- bckr 5y agoNot GP, but I suspect that increased emotional maturity would prevent one from lashing out, overreacting, underreacting, being unable to emotionally support one's child, etc.
- andi999 5y agoYou dont have to live your dreams through your kids (happens to ppl with unfinished potential due to early parenthood)
- giantg2 5y agoEven kids have less responsibility and more oversight today than generations ago. I wonder if that contributes to speed of maturation.
- xoserr 5y agoFor sure. Not to mention someone like me who is child free and never going to learn these lessons.