thrownaway1337

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   by thrownaway1337 8y ago

   But then why do it in the first place? If you want to have the optionality to constantly plan, reassess, and communicate why would you bind yourself into a legal agreement that limits your ability to do that?
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   by thrownaway1337 8y ago

   Why did you want kids? I always felt like I should want to get married and that I should want kids, but I just... don't. The desire just isn't there. I'm 29 and have been with my partner for long enough that marriage and like
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   by thrownaway1337 8y ago

   Why should we get married in the first place? And how do you clarify your values? Can you give some examples of what your values are?
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   by thrownaway1337 8y ago

   > planning with both of your current and future states in mind This is what is so difficult about marriage. You sign up for a lifetime commitment, but no one plans their life 100% in advance. People change, desires change, realities chan
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   by thrownaway1337 8y ago

   But, as "First Engineer", you get maybe 1/25th or 1/50th the equity of a founder, and you might join 3 months after the company's "founding" pre-product / pre-product market fit. The company might piv