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throwayyy
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throwayyy
4y ago
It's really hard and vulnerable to put yourself out there like this. I think it's good to be as kind and generous as possible in these kinds of conversations even (or especially) if there's some brutal honesty involved.
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throwayyy
4y ago
I used "picky" in another reply and I apologize since this is obviously a sensitive subject and you're right that it's not the most generous word choice. That said, I think you do need to find a balance. Using your CTO e
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throwayyy
4y ago
It sounds like maybe you’re being too picky. A guy who is both physically attractive and “marriageable”, which I assume means charismatic and well-established financially, will have tons of options. Even if you are quite attractive yoursel