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rymohr
10y ago
Hi everyone, one of the Compass cofounders and developers here. We're really excited to roll this out publicly but still a ways out. Happy to answer any questions. If you're more interested in the technical side you might enjoy my
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Can't agree enough! I actually wrote an article [1] last week exploring single-tenant SAAS architectures because I was annoyed with how complicated our multi-tenant plans were. Was bummed the HN post [2] didn't get any traction be
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Exploring single-tenant architectures
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Haha that last one's been nagging me lately every time the kids ask how many days are left till Christmas.
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Is that 55,000 lines of elm in a single large project or across all projects?
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10y ago
Good advice, definitely want to keep everything in a single branch. While building the enterprise version of Kumu [1], I found it much easier to maintain if I used the environment to toggle configuration flags rather than scattering if(ente
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10y ago
One time I was at the park with my three kids and all the sudden every parent at the playground grabbed their kids, rushed to the parking lot, and got the hell out of there. I had no idea what was going on. So we kept skateboarding. Next th
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I agree on the benefits of the first example but is that really dependency injection? Or is it just an abstraction layer? eg. what if getAccount was hard coded to initialize all the other dependencies it needed on the fly for each call? If
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10y ago
Have you seen http://en.arguman.org ? It allows you to make an assertion and then break the argument down into peer-validated because, but, and however statements.
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10y ago
https://www.amazon.com/Siblings-Without-Rivalry-Children-Tog...
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Thank you everyone that offered advice and encouragement on this. Here's a few of the top resources that were shared for anyone else in a similar situation: http://parenting.stackexchange.com/ https://www.am
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10y ago
He actually thought it was fun. I tied him up with one of the play silks we have and a couple loose knots. Only took him a few minutes to work his way out of them but at least it diverted his attention and helped him calm down for a bit.
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10y ago
"Bring it, bitch" is definitely his attitude at home. He loves wrestling and any other form of deep physical contact. His teachers say he doesn't have any problems at school, which is comforting yet extremely frustrating at t
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10y ago
I don't think abuse was the reason kids were less defiant before. In the old days they just had more space and time to explore things on their own, work out mini conflicts with other kids on their own, and basically learn the rules of
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Point taken. Unfortunately he also encourages his 3-year old sis to climb over the fence with him now too. And she is absolutely adorable.
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10y ago
Thanks for the encouragement. Your point about remembering he's just a kid is spot on. He seems SO old compared to his sisters, but every once in a while he'll say something that strikes that chord and makes you remember just how
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10y ago
Sounds like we're very much in the same boat. He definitely took a turn for the worse when his little sis was born. He's a very creative and strong willed boy. Loves people and loves to talk. If he's left to his own he does a
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Sounds like a great idea. We've tried the point chart but haven't tried to capture his behavior over time in a way that's visible to him.
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He can to a point, but once he gets tired / bored the behavior comes out even in public. Yesterday my wife took the kids to the beach and tried to get a photo of the three of them together. In the sequence you see him pull our 3-year o
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10y ago
The natural consequences are more along the lines of... Don't like dinner? That's fine, don't eat. Then he goes in and makes a bowl of ice cream. What's the natural consequence approach there? Same when he's taking
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We've tried spanking but it just gets him riled up (and as you noted, more violent). Not sure what else to do though. He refuses to accept no for answer and insists on doing whatever he pleases whenever he pleases unless you physically
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He's already seeing an OT at his school but it doesn't seem to be helping much. Not sure what the next step up is. For the most part he behaves fine out in public (or when he knows he's being tested). But once he gets home he
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Yeah the stress it's causing my wife is one of the hardest parts about it. She got her BS in child development, worked at the local CDRC in college, and always assumed parenting would come easy for her. Thank god our 3-year old daughte
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Thanks, hopefully that's the stage we're getting to. My wife hung posters on the walls with exercises to help him calm down and I've been quitting work early to be able to spend more 1-on-1 time with him in the afternoons. Wh
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Ask HN: Any experience with defiant children?
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What's with the down votes? We've built a platform that helps people diagram, explore, and share the complex systems Donella talks about. Her work has been a major influence on Kumu and we even have a quote of hers on the manifest
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10y ago
The Systems Thinker [1] is another great resource. [1]: https://thesystemsthinker.com/
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10y ago
Anyone know how playcanvas handles antialiasing? Their scenes are beautiful.
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I'm not sure I'd consider this apathy. My guess is that everyone who considered fixing this over those 8 years instinctively knew it was going to be a leaky fix. And that "fixing" it would likely lead to more bugs.
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10y ago
Kumu | Honolulu, HI | REMOTE | Software engineer / javascript developer Kumu is a web-based data viz platform that helps people understand complex relationships, mostly through network, systems, and stakeholder maps. We’ve spent the pa
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