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7y ago
When you say things like “you come across as condescending”, the author can feel hurt, because the story in their mind is that a friction in this one interaction is seen as an inherent flaw of the author or of their writing. Hurting your in
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7y ago
Medical doctors have given me ignorant, incoherent or harmful advice many times. When someone says something that doesn’t make sense to you, do you just put whatever they’ve handed you into your mouth without asking questions?