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kr15
5y ago
read Marshall B. Rosenberg, you will know what empathy is. this article is not about empathy, but about brainwashing yourself. it's a guide how to get a Stockholm syndrom
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kr15
5y ago
you're right, this article is about brainwashing yourself to be forgiving for the abuser.
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kr15
5y ago
you're right
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kr15
5y ago
you do not empathize with a sociopath. its their game, they want you to care for them. they get angry when you just say "no" to them. you have to have a cold stone face when you do it, and keep it during their ape like rage in fro
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kr15
5y ago
what do you want to say by that? you prefer to live with an asshole than be lonely?
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kr15
5y ago
I don't think it's your problem. There is something shitty going on. There are new tools that people want. But they are mostly old tools combined together with Python and parsing Yaml. Nobody asks about the basics that are the bas
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kr15
5y ago
fuck this coach and his advices. i wont have any empathy to an angry shouting asshole. my anxiety and insecurity come not from my problems, but from working with such asshole. this is one big "forgive a sociopath" article. fuck so