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hosh
4y ago
Defining characteristic of arid is little precipitation. Desert is more about sandy soil that supports sparse vegetation. If wasteland can accumulate organic material, and start rebuilding the soil, it starts retaining more water, which bri
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hosh
4y ago
Memes don't necessarily make it harder. However, memes can be used to simultaneously include and exclude -- as references to something the "tribe" gets, but others outside the tribe do not. Inside jokes are an example of such
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hosh
4y ago
It's not. But people also need some kind of shared meaning and a sense of belonging as well.
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hosh
4y ago
Related: biochar as a soil amendment https://biochar-international.org/biochar/
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hosh
4y ago
Root systems are not necessarily just about being able to hold soil or not getting knocked over. I don’t know what the parent comment meant by that, but I do know the root zone is vital for plants. Plants do not directly mine minerals. Inst
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hosh
4y ago
I wrote a different comment about my experiences with miscarriages, and how experiencing that lead me to understand something: You are already a father. You are already a parent, even though the baby has not been born. You're already a
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4y ago
I'd like to speak a bit more about miscarriages, not to jinx the OP, but because this is rarely spoken about in the public. I don't meant to instill FUD, but rather, I'm trying to help others along with their own journey. I a
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4y ago
You can gain skills like archery this way. However, that kind of attitude and frame will not work well for a healthy relationship. People’s feelings are not outcomes you can manage your way towards. You are, of course, free to do as you lik
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4y ago
I specifically talk about going inward to find out who you really are — and that does mean, it is not about the role model. Or rather, if you are going to use a role model, there is a particular confusion I advise watching out for. Your own
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4y ago
I’m glad you learned not to try to be what you think the other person wants. What I meant by authenticity goes more than that. It’s gaining an intuitive knowing of who you really are, past the layers of beliefs and conditionings. It’s more
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4y ago
Hmm. To address this: Assholes are those who do not have the well-being of others at heart. They are generally wrapped up un psychological armoring, wanting to make an impact while also don’t want to be touched. As such, they have terrible
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4y ago
You cannot make anyone fall in love with you. That belief that you can, and the hubris that goes with it, leads to twisty and dark places. Instead, 1. Be the best, and authentic person you can be. Authenticity is not found by looking outsid
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4y ago
However, if you're intent is to gain skills in foraging or make medicinal uses of plants, then this is well worth the time to run through.
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4y ago
I said for example, "this isn't necessarily a power trip". I said nothing more, and nothing less. And yet many people took that to mean something a lot more. I say, "there are deeper issues at play", yet people are
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4y ago
Thank you for asking. I think many of the responses to my comment ended up talking about parental rights, rather than this question you brought up, and I appreciate the opportunity to explore this. I am most definitely not saying that well-
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4y ago
I have a grown daughter, a two-year old, and one on the way. There are lots of things you can’t tell just by text. Who said anything about defending this? I happen to agree with the author of that article, including things she did not elabo
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4y ago
If that is what you care about and get angry about, I won't gainsay it. In my view, that is the smaller issue of the bigger issues at play. The author of the article, and what he is advocating for, is broader than that, but hey, if peo
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4y ago
> Why do you think they might not have been doing this capriciously in this specific case? Neither of us were there. There are people who genuinely believe in this kind of safety of children. I've read other articles like this befor
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4y ago
That, while is an important issue, is not the most important issue brought out by this article. Life is uncertain, and adults are called to choices weigh risk and opportunities. And there is an epidemic of teenagers and young adults right
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4y ago
Letting an adult figure go with the kids to Dunkin Donuts for their safety misses the point. The deeper issue is that using “safety” as the only metric for enforcement is leading to a society where the next generation of adults is ill equi
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4y ago
Neither of us were there, and I can’t speak for his motivations just from the article. He may well be power tripping, but I can also see someone saying that because they genuinely believe that kids should not roam around on the streets on t
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4y ago
I don’t think people can define legal standards for “well-being” distinct from “safety”. And yet, this is where things are headed: https://www.kqed.org/mindshift/60624/young-adults-are-strugg... Beyond whether par
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This is not necessarily a power trip. There are people who genuinely feel that way, and are doing this for the public good. I think there has been a confusion in our society between well-being and safety. There are definitely circumstances
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4y ago
This is why we have this: https://www.kqed.org/mindshift/60624/young-adults-are-strugg... Instead of this: https://www.npr.org/sections/goatsandsoda/2018/06/09/6169288...
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It is not the only way to go. However, for people starting out, with no experience, then you have to have something else to show for it.
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4y ago
For those interested, this site has links to many of Christopher Alexander’s ideas. The people who put this together are aiming to apply his ideas to software design: https://beautiful.software/
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4y ago
Christopher Alexander has a whole lifetime work on this subject. While “order” and “variety” are something that humans crave, that is something that can naturally come about because of “generative codes”. That the design process unfolds, wi
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4y ago
Would NX help your use case for computations in Elixir?
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I don't know Python or Rust well, but I think this is the problem: https://betterprogramming.pub/the-dangers-of-async-in-python... And this is how some people are solving it: https://async.rs/blog/
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4y ago
Would running Nodejs in WebAssembly along with something like Firefly or Lunatic help make the transition smoother?
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