futuredivorcee

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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   Okay, I was trying to have a discussion on the logistics of raising our children the way we agree is best without defending that way — but I understand; we're humans, and humans want to dig deeper. So here goes: My eldest daughter has
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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   I was trying to keep focused on the question rather than my personal feelings; of course it's about the kids. But I didn't think everyone on HN needed to hear about my feelings.
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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   We've found it effective, and it's good to have a chance to spend more time raising the kids. At this point, it's also because since things are being upset already, I hate to do more to unsettle their lives than we already a
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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   I'm inclined to feel like this is not particularly fair, but I'll be sure to think carefully about my motivations.
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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   I'll check it out and get in touch if it looks like a good fit. Thanks!
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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   Excellent idea on the meetups and such — I have a good excuse to do that right now, and I will act on it. I'll check into that site, as well.
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   by futuredivorcee 9y ago

   P.S. I'm using a throwaway account here for obvious reasons.
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   Ask HN: How should I afford my children?

   31 points by futuredivorcee 9y ago|41 comments