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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   Thanks for your comment: This is my outlook: I try to be the best person I can be and when I make mistakes, I try to know what I did so I can learn from them. I agree with you that in this case, I do not feel I have even a chance to really
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   Well said! I will definitely keep the workplace for working especially during the rest of this internship.
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   I am curious too!
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   Thanks for your comment! Well said! I am looking forward to working as hard as I can and then moving on in a few months when this internship ends. But becoming "tainted" or worse, convicted of a crime is what I am worried about
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   Thanks for your comment. I have a male coworker on my immediate team who I feel comfortable confiding in. I am a little confused though: what sort of honest feedback should I be asking for? How I may be coming across to other people? Som
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   I have no intent on damaging my career or making others feel uncomfortable, so at this point, keeping my head low, nose to the grindstone, let this pass, is how I will attempt to make these last few months work out. From the comments here,
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   I'm bookmarking your comment! Thanks for your advice! I definitely could use a gym membership. And when I meet such new people, I'll try to find conversation topics that would be very unlikely to be taken the wrong way (as I ha
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   In hindsight, I realize that such a question about weekend plans could be taken the wrong way. I was ultimately trying to be cordial, not to make anyone (male or female) feel I was leading on to them. On your last point, I am still a virgi
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   by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

   Wow! That is a crazy story! I am not justifying the person who falsely accused you at all, but at least in the end, there was some "closure"/mutual understanding of how to reduce any tension. I wish something like this coul
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    Thanks for your commend and advice! Definitely looking forward to keeping my head low and seeing how much more I can accomplish in these next few months I have left. I believe I fall into the socially-awkward/inexperienced category.
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    After sleeping on it, this is sort of how I feel. I would have personally gone to see someone who is bothering me to let them know before going straight to management. And if I felt extremely uncomfortable, then perhaps I would ask if man
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    Thanks for your input! I have toyed with the idea of meeting with management and making such demands, but between being nervous of getting fired sooner than my internship already ending, I am reluctant to do so. On the other hand, I feel
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    Thanks for your insightful comment! And I'm sorry to hear of your brother's story. It has been hard, but I have suspended talking to people about non-work-related topics since this incident. I thought I was in a domain of accep
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    Thanks for your advice. The first question I was asked was if I knew why I was brought into the meeting with management. I answered I honestly did not know. When they told me, I made someone feel uncomfortable I apologized for any harm I
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    I sit facing a wall on one side of the room. The two desks on either side of me are where my teammates (both male) sit. Behind me at the other end of the room, there are two girls, one facing the back wall, and one facing the opposite sid
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    No substatial evidence was provided. After being told that I made a woman feel uncomfortable, I immediately apologized for any harm I would have caused. I then asked if its possible to know what I said or did that caused this discomfort t
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    I posted this to Ask HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/edit?id=14676115 Feel free to comment there. Sorry for the not-so-related spam on this original post.
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    Good idea! Thank you! Being this is an internship ending in a few months, I feel it might not be worth it, but definitely in the future, when a permanent position or clean criminal history may be at stake, I think a legal consultation wou
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    Ask HN: Victim of an unfounded harrasement accusation. Your thoughts?

    146 points by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago|138 comments
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    This is a little off-topic so mods, please flag/move as needed. (Wasn't sure if I should make this an Ask HN or not). I feel I may be a victim of a false accusation of sexual harassment. I am really not sure how to proceed at thi
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    I like your idea! I too have been interested in staying in a different city (NYC) to check out the tech-scene before considering relocating there. Though I've been to NYC probably 10+ times to visit family, I have yet to see if it&#x27
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    by fjfkdjfjfjd 9y ago

    I think you may be looking for something like this, but for SF. Does anyone know if something like this exists? http://www.digital.nyc/events