butter999

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   by butter999 2y ago

   "I call people mister or asshole" is absolutely about respect. "I'm not going to change my habits of 50 years" is absolutely a generational thing. How do you respect someone you disagree with? You find a way to live
2. 32.▲
   by butter999 2y ago

   > I call men "mister" out of respect. My other word for people who don't merit respect is "asshole". I believe this to be the actual root of the issue. You have decided some people aren't worthy of your resp
3. 33.▲
   by butter999 2y ago

   Feel free to provide evidence that harassment is occuring, it sounds like people are stating how they'd like to be treated (clearly free speech), other people are disregarding it (again, free speech), and they're being told that&#
4. 34.▲
   by butter999 2y ago

   It's a genre. It's neither dogmatic, modern, nor unique to programming.
5. 35.▲
   by butter999 2y ago

   That's like saying, "you can't tell me what your name is, or whether you'd like to be called Mr., Ms. or Mrs. That's not self expression, that's controlling my speech, and so that's censorship." The s