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7y ago
Yeah, "toxic masculinity", but I can't name another type of masculinity that's in mainstream awareness. Can you? If you google for "masculinity", "toxic masculinity" is the first thing that comes up.
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7y ago
In case anyone else is interested: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nM9f0W2KD5s
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7y ago
Thanks for naming some other similar organizations. I did some searching and just learned that they're called LGATs: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Large-group_awareness_training
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7y ago
I think you took my comment differently than intended. My fault for phrasing it poorly. First, you are correct that MKP is not a cult and everything you're saying here checks out with the research I just did into MKP. What I meant was
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7y ago
Huh, neat. I had no idea there was a name for "islamic patterns", but they look like exactly what I expected. People have been making this sort of stuff since way before LSD was invented, but I can't help notice how incredib
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It's a mainstream idea now that masculinity is toxic, so it's not surprising that people are projecting that onto this. Calling it "New Warrior Training Adventure" comes across as super patronizing. "ManKind"
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7y ago
The workplace used to be a male space.
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7y ago
I don't know if anyone else will say it, but I think part of the reason is because not every crime deserves a prosecution. Most murders probably do, but if you have this database you might as well use it for automatic paternity tests t
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Ah the good old days, when state crimes required a facade of reasonability, an abundance of ass-covering, and the assurance of good-faith.
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7y ago
Wow, that's a lot of core features. And it sort of makes sense because it's all in ActiveX, and ActiveX is not supported by Edge. https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/microsoft-edge/deploy/emie-... So
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7y ago
I just assume everything has some small chance of killing me and try not to let it bother me too much.
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7y ago
It's definitely feasible. Old hardware + 2 network cards + pfsense makes a router that can do network-wide VPN. Even a lot of prosumer routers can do VPNs now, but I'm not sure how well it works.
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7y ago
You seem like you don't understand what happened and are chalking it up to fake news, so I'm going to answer your question of "where was the outrage under previous admins?" and explain to you why the current outrage is n
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7y ago
> “We all know we are in uncharted waters,” Tarleton said. “I would rather not have to go through a catastrophic failure.” If anyone hasn't been through some tragic medical shit in their life, pay attention to that. You'll und
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7y ago
Heh, I don't think I've ever heard SDLC mentioned in industry outside of bad consultants.
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7y ago
I know this is a throwaway for you (and it sort of is for me too), but I just wanted to reply to you and let you know that I'm cheering for you to find a way to make things work. If I ever solve this problem for myself, I'm going
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7y ago
I've given this some thought, as I'm trying to figure out what to do with myself. I think I'm going to try this after my current startup sells or fails. What I think I would do is reach out to anyone I know and let them know
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7y ago
Thank you. That's eye opening. This thread is making me realize how much the US health care system really is impacting my life choices. > It's not an extraordinary life, but it's mine and I like it. From where I'm s
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7y ago
Are you not saving at all and only working when you need money? If you become unable to work, aren't you concerned that you'll become homeless or starve?
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7y ago
I do remote now, but I don't think much of anything is based on "results". We still have mandatory morning meetings, many meetings through the week, lots of questions to be answered, bugs to be fixed, new features to be writ
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7y ago
Ok, that makes sense, but you make it sound like I know what I should be doing. It's impossible to know what I should be doing in any kind of optimal way without knowing when I'm going to die. If I'm going to die next year, I
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Yeah it is, based on age and savings and one of those FIRE calculators, and predicted spending based on what I know like house maintenance, food, clothes, etc. My Spanish is no bueno, but if my job was "learn Spanish", I don'
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7y ago
My plan is to not have any family because of this employment problem. It'd be neat to have kids I guess, but however good it is cannot possibly be worth an extra 20 years of employment.
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7y ago
That's a useful data point. It's hard to get a sense of these things when nobody ever wants to talk about them.
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7y ago
I stalked you a little based on that comment, and I can't figure out what it is you really do. You must be living a good life if you've got time to maintain a toy programming language ( https://github.com/kerkeslage
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I'm trying so hard to get out. I'm single with no plan to have dependents, and a debt-free homeowner. I'm not in a relationship for obvious reasons, but if I was, I guess I'd be limited to FIRE people who don't wa
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7y ago
Thank you. You shouldn't be downvoted for saying this. I feel like you're saying what everyone else around me is thinking, but nobody has ever actually said. I don't even know why you'd have to preface it by saying you
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Oh ok, that makes sense. I know that's one way to view the problem, but I guess it carries more weight as being the correct view due to the divine origin of the advice? Maybe the bible is right here, but another way to view that parab
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I'm blown away by that. How did you make the transition? I didn't know anyone transitioned from how I think about life to how you now think about it. I've got "love what you do and you'll never work a day in your
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7y ago
Exactly!
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