an_tie_hero

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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
I'll give them a shot.
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
I'm not sure what you expect from a spammer
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
Actually I was commenting on the only gay people I've met. They just want a fuck-buddy and I don't want to lower myself to that.
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
Orlando, FL.
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
> For one thing, closeted guys in their late 20s aren't boyfriend material. I also don't live with or have anything to do with my parents. I just meant to say that I don't know anyone personally who can help me figure out
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
> It sounds like you want a relationship and you're not doing anything about it that works to get one. Yeah, but since I have no experience (and no one to talk to -- parents don't know I'm gay, for example), I don't k
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
Yeah 3: Being gay is kind of terrible. Especially if you want a committed monogamous relationship.
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
I actually work two jobs right now. One's a day job with a two hour commute (each way), and I'm trying to help one of my friends start a business too. Only the first one pays. I do need to spend more time on myself, but there are
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by an_tie_hero 11y ago
Hahaha :3 I don't think I'll make it to FC this or next year. Maybe Megaplex in Kissimmee. My FA is InfoSecFurry if you or anyone wants to bark my way.
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Ask HN: How to hack relationships if you're gay?
13 points by an_tie_hero 11y ago|23 comments
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
> enjoy good sex. it's one of life's greatest gifts. Yeah, that is never going to happen. Not for me. I am 1. gay and 2. ugly.
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
I'm sorry you think the undisclosed circumstances of my life are bogus and that I am a dishonest person. From a throwaway account to hide my identity, there's no possible defense I can mount against an accusation of dishonesty. Bu
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
""" ground hog day / kill yourself. literally, kill yourself, but do it FOR something. what would you kill yourself to achieve? """ This is probably dangerous advice. When I was deep into
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
Sorry, I don't live in Silicon Valley where everyone has a six figure salary and the solution for feeling bad is to see a doctor. So many of the reasons why I don't stem from money issues, but also time issues (I'll probably
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
""" Once you accept that these negative experiences are temporary . . . then you'll have no more thoughts of suicide. """ I don't think it really works like that. You can't just
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
I will not be calling any strange number until I've found a way to make truly anonymous phone calls (e.g. something in the realm of RedPhone + onion routing like Tor).
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
Thanks for trying :)
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
My comment is obtuse and I apologize for it, all I can say is everyone walks their own path and its not always easy. No, your comment was perfectly okay. I was just stating that for everyone reading this thread to know.
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by an_tie_hero 12y ago
""" ... a mental health professional ... """ I'm afraid that I can't afford that option financially. I probably won't be able to in the immediate future (next 5 years), either.
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Ask HN: Why keep living?
62 points by an_tie_hero 12y ago|93 comments