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30vanquish
15y ago
It's easier. I go to another UC myself and while I agree with most of what you say, I see more and more people interacting with one another. Hopefully this trend continues. But I get it. For almost all of our evolutionary past, we were in t
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It's what keeps me going. I can't control what happens after I die but I can control what happens in this life. So I'm going to make my purpose in this life ---making an impact now. Even if it's ultimately meaningless in the universe's time
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15y ago
You shouldn't care about the person in front of you until they have proven their worth. "Hotness" is simply giving the women a chance to prove herself. If she does, then you can create a good connection. It doesn't have to end up as an empt
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What Happens When You Try to Flirt with 100+ Women in Two Weeks in Amsterdam?
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How to be a Seriously Rad Motherf**ker
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15y ago
If I talk to someone on a music forum, then you could talk about that music artist. Then from there if they list on their profile that they like the soccer team, Barcelona, and the movie, The Matrix, (for examples), then I send them a messa
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15y ago
It has that mindset to see what works and what doesn't. I'll agree there probably are easier ways to meet and make friends. That's cool. Everyone has their own taste. If some people are turned off by reading my blog, it's the same as dressi
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Thanks for the great insight. With the help of skype, you can see body language, tone (non-verbal communication) almost as well as real life now. Location isn't a barrier anymore and that's what makes the internet so powerful. >The syst
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15y ago
Hello Erik, Thanks for the constructive criticism. I'm not here to please the people who think that writing to 400 people to make friends is creepy. Everyone makes friends and eventually you'll have to talk to 400 strangers whether or not i
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15y ago
How would it be creepy? It's just like any friend you would make. You have to start by talking to a stranger. If you want to do it in a formal manner like a classroom, a workplace, a meetup, then that's cool. I simply don't want to limit my
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It all comes down to putting your own variation on something that exists. Then once you put out many variations on that original item, then that original item is now your new creation. Ex: Just listen to music from the same genre. Each arti
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15y ago
that is true. we were talking about a party where two circles can have more potential to become one. if g+ plus does do that, i'll be sure to keep checking out functions on it.
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15y ago
i like that meeting friends of other friends way of doing things and being yourself. good reminders. also one way why i don't like g+ circles is the reinforcement of not being able to merge groups. thats why i like online interaction. your
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When it comes to real life, I second the last point because people in motion are much tougher to approach than someone who is sitting and stationary. Community does let you get past the rapport issue more quickly. But besides that one inter
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It's the same amount of filtering like the other reply. It comes down to wanting social interactions without having to go through that small talk stuff that most people need to go through in real life. I also do volunteer my time as well. A
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You've brought up good points. More and more exposure when it comes to work and school can benefit real life relationships as well. However, when I've met people online, I don't connect with them really well until the 2nd attempt. (I give p
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Friend to me is where two people can have rapport about one or more subjects. If I talk to someone about basketball and only basketball, then that's a friend to me. Good comment in bringing up that everyone has their own interpretation and
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15y ago
Great insight on this. It tends to hold true for many social aspects. It's something that I take into account when I get rejected or the talk can't go beyond any certain subject/topic because it's nothing personal. The certain wavelength or