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My thoughts on the original article: I'm sure Wadhwa does a lot of things that are counterproductive to his stated goals and obstructive to the women trying to
by paul_milovanov 12y ago
My thoughts on the original article:
I'm sure Wadhwa does a lot of things that are counterproductive to his stated goals and obstructive to the women trying to have their voices heard. I'm sure he is oblivious to the fact that he ends up stealing some attention from the cause for himself, and to many other things.
However I'm also pretty sure that he is earnest in his intensions and his desire to help women in tech. He is well respected in Silicon Valley by many influential people and has the pulpit to attract the attention to the difficulties women in tech face and the great things they have to offer. His language may be off and he is a bit tone deaf, but consider that he was (probably) raised in a fairly patriarchical, misogynist culture that he has come to actively reject and campaign against. I also take offense at the libelous implication that Amelia (author) makes of the sexual nature of Wadhwa's offer to talk to people who disagree with him at his private office at Stanford.
I am not a woman, a member of an lgbt or any other visible minority group, but I strongly support acceptance and acknowledgement of the shared humanity that we all share, equal opportunities and everybody's fundamental right to human dignity and making choices in their private lives that make them happy. I will take help and support for these causes anywhere they come from, especially if it is coming from a person that is in the position to influence a group that is otherwise unlikely to listen to these messages. I also support open civilized discussion and believe that well intentioned and compassionate people will make changes in their behavior if someone takes the time to explain to them in a non-hostile manner how particular things they are doing harm the people they want to help.
- spb 12y ago> I also take offense at the libelous implication that Amelia (author) makes of the sexual nature of Wadhwa's offer to talk to people who disagree with him at his private office at Stanford. I don't really think it's like that. It's more the latently threatening implications of requesting that someone come see you, one-on-one, behind closed doors on your own turf. Think of it like the iconic scene in the film Network (as referenced earlier this week in the Better Call Saul premiere) where Ned Beatty's seemingly-harmless Arthur Jensen invites Peter Finch's anxious and ambitious Howard Beale to talk in his corporate conference room. Once the doors close and Beale is without recourse or defense, Jensen blows up into an apocalyptic rage, contextualized by his tone and environment to inescapably inculcate his forced parishioner that he is no less than, as Beale meakly whimpers at the end of the tirade, "the face of God". Clip for those who haven't seen it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuBe93FMiJc#t=20s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuBe93FMiJc#t=20s