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It's a matter of perspective. If my wife took off with my kid, I'd use any means at my disposal to find them - in spite of the fact that I'd never dream of doi

• ScottBurson 12y ago
  The repeated use of "his kids" and "my kids" (in cases where the poster is imagining being in his situation) in this thread is quite fascinating. They're her kids (as far as we know) at least as much as they are his. Also, the story used the word "girlfriend", not "wife". They're not married, so he has no legal claim to them.
  • psykovsky 12y ago
    > They're not married, so he has no legal claim to them. What? Where do you live? Third world country? Does your country still allow children to have less than 2 parents on their birth certificate?
  • GrinningFool 12y ago
    >> The repeated use of "his kids" and "my kids" (in cases where the poster is imagining being in his situation) in this thread is quite fascinating. I think you read too much into it. Consider the context. I am talking about the what-if "me". When I talk about myself and branch off to talking about my kid, it's usually going to be "my kid" or "my son" (as here). If I'm in a discussion where I'm talking about the unit "us" as parents, it is "our kid" or "our son", and it's the same if my wife and I are discussing our son. (Seriously - that 'our son' wasn't contrived, it's all about the context. I'm talking here about both of us, so I automatically wrote "our son") And when the kid in question pisses me off, it's definitely "do you know what your son did?" ;)