In general, you have to put a certain amount of trust in your doctor. They are helping you make pretty life altering decisions. Now, there is a bit of a cultur

In general, you have to put a certain amount of trust in your doctor. They are helping you make pretty life altering decisions. Now, there is a bit of a cultural barrier where they aren't used to the idea of patients being as involved in their medical care, but on the whole, they are there to help you. If you're really all that worried about your doctor writing lots of secret notes and not letting you see them, even once there's a system in place to allow you to easily collaborate with them, maybe it's time to get a new doctor?