I think weekends when you're single are best used looking for a wife. Once you're married the weekends are for you to give your wife a break by playing with t

I think weekends when you're single are best used looking for a wife. Once you're married the weekends are for you to give your wife a break by playing with the kids so she can relax! If you can squeeze something else in, whether it be a hobby or a second job, more power to you! I don't think you ought to fret too much "what's the best path"... just pick something and do it. As for your company's opinion, remember the ancient maxim "It's better to ask forgiveness than permission". That was Julius Caesar upon crossing the Rubicon, wasn't it?