I think the difference might be in giving yourself a pat on the back, as opposed to looking to everyone around you to validate your success. The 'everyone gets

I think the difference might be in giving yourself a pat on the back, as opposed to looking to everyone around you to validate your success. The 'everyone gets a sticker' mentality is totally harmful. That's why it's important to realize success on your own terms — you don't need the sticker.