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I don't know what the day-to-day is like at GitHub, but if people were hula-hooping to music at my place of work, I'd probably be pretty interested in watching
by MarkTee 13y ago
I don't know what the day-to-day is like at GitHub, but if people were hula-hooping to music at my place of work, I'd probably be pretty interested in watching them too (male or female).
- lancewiggs 13y agoIt's not what or whether they were watching, it's how they were watching. It's a judgement call but pretty easy to tell if a group is leering or just watching friends have fun.
- peterjancelis 13y agoEven more so, it is the sexual attractiveness of the guys who are watching.
- chii 13y agoare you implying that if it had been an attractive male watching the females, there wouldn't have been any complaint, despite being leered at?
- brazzy 13y agoYes, that's what is being implied, and it's certainly something that happens, in degrees. People generally enjoy attention from those they themselves find attractive - obviously up to a limit, but that limit is much different than when you don't find the other person attractive. And that is why the "making a woman feel uncomfortable constitutes sexual harassment" standard is problematic. And of course it's not entirely wrong either because it certainly can be done on purpose.
- RivieraKid 13y agoNot by the hula hoopers
- microjesus 13y agoWhat really concerns me; is why she was watching them watch.