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"I don’t mind taking on a difficult task, I just minded having to do it alone and unseen." Better to have gotten out of tech, then. In a culture as dominated
by angersock 13y ago
"I don’t mind taking on a difficult task, I just minded having to do it alone and unseen."
Better to have gotten out of tech, then.
In a culture as dominated by MVP and ship-it-now as we seem to have become, there is not going to be much celebration of craftmanship nor craftsman.
Demand for, yes. Appreciation, no.
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EDIT:
"Many of them are single, many of them work 70 hour weeks for years and survive with minimal love and compassion and kindness. They are also unseen. There are not many people, and especially very few women, who can truly appreciate their technical accomplishments."
...which introduces a very unfortunate set of circumstances where women in tech aren't interested in guys in tech, because the guys in tech aren't well-socialized or attractive.
Contrast this with, say, civil or chemical engineers: a good friend of mine regularly goes to meetings of the American Society of Chemical Engineers (or something like that?) and the demographics are even and sometimes you even meet nice people and go out. Very different from my experience in the dev world.
- rayiner 13y agoIts really depressing when you're talking about how good guys in chemical engineering have it... I'm a little wary of this line of reasoning, because I don't like to imply that women in tech should be viewed as romantic objects. I'd certainly never date a coworker. So let me phrase it this way. I met my wife in law school and I love the fact that she and I can talk shop and understand what the other does for a living, especially because we're both quite passionate about our careers. At the same time, I think woman lawyers are less likely to be viewed as romantic prospects by their coworkers, precisely because they're not a novelty. Its a dynamic I like better than the one I experienced in software.
- GrinningFool 13y agoBetter to have gotten out of tech, then. Alternatively, maybe the rest of us who accept this as the norm should do a little introspection of our own.