Actually, you're _exactly_ what others say you are. Ask 10 friends what they think of John and common threads will come up. That's John. Ask John what he thin

Actually, you're _exactly_ what others say you are. Ask 10 friends what they think of John and common threads will come up. That's John. Ask John what he thinks of himself, and you'll get a much different (and more inaccurate) picture. Candid photos taken by someone else are much more realistic than a selfie.