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Sex nowadays became a redundant, obsolete, risky, overcomplicated act which you can totally avoid with the help of good porn. So why bother with searching partn
by nkhodyunya 13y ago
Sex nowadays became a redundant, obsolete, risky, overcomplicated act which you can totally avoid with the help of good porn. So why bother with searching partner, if you can have all of sex benefits alone, but with porn or good imagination.
- gradsolos 13y agoThis. With the amazing variety and quantity of high-quality porn nowadays, it never ceases to amaze me the great efforts people are willing to undergo for the possibility of sex. When I ask, most people admit they don't really like that place or feel like doing that, they do it only to increase their prospects of having casual sex. C'mon, it's the 21st century!
- philwelch 13y agoAre you a solipsist or just a virgin?
- nkhodyunya 13y agoNeither. I've tried casual sex when I was young, 5 or 7 times before realized it's totally overrated overhyped trash.
- philwelch 13y agoHave you tried non-casual sex? The whole point of sex is to make an intimate connection with another person; I'll agree it's kind of pointless without that. But then again so is porn. Hence the original question: it's a very solipsistic attitude that porn is an adequate replacement for sex.
- nkhodyunya 13y agoYeah, i believe putting my dick into someone else pussy would make us "strongly connected" for at least some time, but I don't agree that the whole point of sex is intimate connection. I believe that the point is to make children. Or (as for me) to make orgasm.
- graycat 13y agoSex? Add in commitment, caring, affection, intimacy, romance, joining of lives, a good version of passion, a collection of memories, activities, traditions really like, don't want to lose, can't get anywhere else, and, thus, cause 'lock in', vows, supportive families, children ("most rewarding thing we did"), etc. One night stands are not very good on passion; it takes a while for a caring, loving couple to be good with each other with passion. One night stands are at best just mutual friction, and a simple electrical appliance can replace that. She has two legs. He has two legs. If she breaks a leg, then she is down to one leg to help her broken leg get well. But joined with him with good vows, commitment, etc. they have four legs with three good legs to help her broken leg get well. Can rattle off 10,000 such cases faster than can say them. People don't want to be alone. Being alone is scary. Nearly all baby mammals know this. Being joined to someone is much more secure.
- nkhodyunya 13y agoThis probably must sound reasonable, at least for a guy who was taught this things during his whole life. But as for me, any relationships I can imagine with a human being is a painful nightmare. I don't really know if I enjoy loneliness or not, but at least I don't find it painful at all.
- Crake 13y agoI think I can sort of relate.
- chiaro 13y agoHa, let's just wait until the Oculus Rift hits mainstream.
- outworlder 13y agoHave you ever considered the possibility that you are just lacking experience, and thus not doing it properly? Indeed, if sex were as boring as masturbation, it wouldn't be worth it.
- return0 13y agoPerhaps you are a japanese? Anyway, how is sex risky and overcomplicated (unless sharp objects, diseases and coordinated acrobatics are involved)? Sex should be simple fun. Maybe you refer to dating or the search for a partner. If today's gay hookup apps are any indicator, straight hookups will become instant gratification at the tap of a button, soon. We 're not there yet because of cultural hangups.
- seanmcdirmid 13y agoWhatsApp, WeChat are already there I think.